Well i have a very big problem that has been bugging me for the
last 5 months! there is this guy i really,really like.i spent a
month and a half with him when i first met him,at my work.i clicked
with him from the first moment i met him.we became close,and then
he had to go home to sg!
he knew i like him a little bit when he left,,,,,,but i dont know
how to tell him that he is what i think about every day!
at first i thought i just got along well with him like a friend,as
i always get along with guys better than with girls.
but as time went on,i found myself crying when he left.....and i
think i love him.
i am going to be seeing him soon,but i think he has a gf now.
how am i supposed to be happy for him,and act as if i dont have
anymore feelings for him than a friend should have?
i dont want to put him in a bad position,and i dont want to
embariss myself.
but i feel like i have to tell him how i feel. i know he's excited
to be seeing me again soon,but i dont know if he likes me as
anything more than a friend now.
please help...im so confused....i dont want to make the biggest
mistake of my life.
i could tell him i think i love him.....but then he might freak out
and i could lose his friendship.
or i could not tell him,and i could lose any chance i might have of
being with him!! 
help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 