ozzy-gurl SG okay....so straight forward,so i'll be straight forward with you. do you know the person i'm talking about??
Ferret SG Just stay friends for now and see how it goes ? No point worrying abt it till you met up with him anyway And the best cure for forgtting him ? Get a bf.
ozzy-gurl SG im not one to start seeing a guy just to get over another one though. thats just wrong,that would only hurt the new guy,im not into hurting people.
alkaiden SG duh, just tell him. u have to do it or ull regret for the rest of ur life!!! heard of the song 'if i let you go' by westlife? day after day time pass away and I just can't get you off my mind nobody knows I hide it inside I keep on searching but i can't find the courage to show to letting you know I've never felt so much love before and once again I'm thinkin' about takin' the easy way out but if I let you go I will never know what my life would be holding you close to me will I ever see you smiling back at me oh yeah how will I know if I let you go night after night I hear myself say why can't this feeling just fade away there's no one like you you speak to my heart it's such a shame we're worlds apart I'm too shy to ask I'm too proud to lose but sooner or later I've gotta choose and once again I'm thinkin' about taking the easy way out but if I let you go I will never know what my life would be holding you close to me will I ever see you smiling back at me oh yeah how will I know if I let you go if I let you go, oh baby oooh once again I'm thinkin' about takin' the easy way out but if I let you go I will never know what my life would be holding you close to me (close to me) will I ever see you smiling back at me oh yeah how will I know if I let you go but if I let you go I will never know (oh baby) will I ever see you smiling back at me oh yeah How will I know (how will i know) if I let you go THE ANSWER IS OBVIOUS JUST TELL HIM, IF IT TURNS OUT HES NOT INTERESTED AT LEAST U WUN HAV REGRETS RITE
ozzy-gurl SG wow..............thankyou. the only thing im scared of is losing him as a friend!! if i tell him i like him,he might not want to be friends with me anymore,then i would die!!!
alkaiden SG u can try like ' Hey theres something ive always wanted to tell you. I have been secretly in love with u for blah blah.....' Must remain eye contact when u say those things. but if he rejects u, then u hav to remain calm.... tell him like 'haha i see...but we can still be friends right? hope i didnt freak u out' must smile when say that...lol if u still can but most impt is depends on wad kind of person he is and whether he liks u or nt
Eiizumi SG There's no how. If you really like him. You'll ask. You'll tell. If not, ask yourself this, "Can I stop thinking of him?" If not, its time for some actions.
ozzy-gurl SG ive been trying for the last 5 months to stop thinking about him....but it doesnt work.i have this photo of himthat i have on a shelf in my bedroom,and everytime i try to take it down,i cant.i just cant bring myself to put it away i just wish i could sort my feelings out.....wish i could just click my fingers,and know whether or not i actually love him,or if its just an infatuation!!! thats whats the hardest about it!!
ozzy-gurl SG mcsquare.....your so mean...you either know something,or your just teasing me,making me think that you do!!!
Eiizumi SG Just say it out, tactfully. If you're scared that he has a gf, you still have to ask. If now, you're friends, this question isn't that difficult to ask. If he says no, then you can ask does he like you.
ozzy-gurl SG thankyou...everyone.....i know it will be hard to do......but i will do it when i go out clubbing with him in sg. is it a good idea to do it then? i just thought,somewhere on equal ground...not my family's house where he might feel uncomfortable if he doesnt want to upset me,and not at his place,so im not feeling uncomfortable. clubs good place??? cause then i would of had a few drinks,and i'll have some dutch courage.....wont be so scared!!!