How would u noe if u're ready to settle down?

last SG · 2006-03-25T16:12:12+00:00

x2. Mian qiang shi bu hui you xing fu de. Married because of love or responsibility? or under pressure?

shinta SG

as above.

Mr. Green

shinta SG

is this the correct place to post?

i'm thinkin more of a discussion....

FeowFeow SG

It's ok : )

*Pats pats Shinta's head*

FeowFeow

shinta SG

let's have some discussions over this.

Mr. Green

how would u noe u're ready to settle down, have a place of ur own and maybe a few jnrs along the way?

four-niner SG

when he says liddat to you

"D .. DD..Do you want to go apply for a flat" Laughing

pie SG

When both of you feel ready to move to a higher level of intimacy Wink

wenyong90 SG

i think is that life is constant…no more up and down…owns a house with your loves ones.

Mospeada SG

when u feel that his money is ur money and ur money is still ur money...and he feels that way too...strike it while hot...

dun tell nellie i told u this Mr. Green

GHoST_18 SG

no lah...

when u feels that his money is your money...

and your money is still your money...

Twisted Evil

Manager433 SG

I know I'm ready because I can get myself a resale flat in 1.5 yrs time. ( can a single gets a new hdb flat or must be a resale one )? But, I still dun have a 'dear'. I wasted my precious qing-choon.

798 SG

sgsexforum is more suitable place.

binZ SG

no worries.. im sure the right one will come soon.. and u will feel ur qing choon is well spent waiting for her..
cheers~ Wink

Manager433 SG

I'm losing confident in a relationship......dun want to be hurt again...

Xcert SG

simple.
when U think about it alone and come to the conclusion "hey...its time to get married."

binZ SG

even if i love my gf, and yet my gf leaves me today for another guy, i also wont be sad de.. why should i get sad over someone who do that to me?

cheer up~ life is long. u cant spend the next 35 yrs like tat bah.
time will dull anything..

even memories..

let me know when u want a drink to chat chat someday~ i accompany u~ Smile

cheers~

babymac13 SG

1) The feelings for her is strong enough to make you think she is the one that can live with you for the rest of your life.

2) Whick stage is your relationship at? Birth/Growing/Maturing/Aging.
Best is in the mature stages.

3) Finanically stable

4) Think of how you can live together. Futuristic view.

browniebaobao SG

I tot Shinta is gg to ROM in a few month's time?

I think.. when u think he's the man u are gg to mary.. u can foresee ur future together, being his huang lian po, bear him a few kids, his relatives become ur relatives, and urs becomes his.. and u are happy and looking forward to it.. in short, if u can see everything as both of your problem.. willing to spend the rest of ur life with each other.. then u should be ready to settle down ba.

juz my opinion la.. i have not met my one yet.. Embarassed

shade343 SG

The question you should ask yourself should be “can I live without him?”

hisoka SG

when you think the guy is rich enuff that when you divorce can get lots of money out of him and you find him bearable for a few years Laughing

BufPuf SG

no right time bah...when u feel that u are ready to commit..and financially stable...the topic of wedding would appear...then you will start discussing where to buy flat, who to contribute to what to the family..

btw...
would u guys buy resale or new flat?

I still prefer a new flat but it seems like the locatinos are not vry convenient to us...he kinda convince me that resale is better and i do agree that there are more advantages...can make use of the grant...save on renovation..10% downpayment...

but you never know what the previous owner did or kept..skali got 'hantu' how