Actually, I am quite appalled at some of the postings. Are our
teenagers really thinking this way?
1) once a guy showed concern, willing to spend more time.
immediately, it is a trap, it will become a bf-gf, sometimes sex is
mentioned, bluff his money.
Yes, I do agree study is important, but growing up mentally is also
important too. And one of the best way is learn how to interact
with someone from the opp sex.
2) how do you protect yourself? How do you know whether this guy is
a cheat or really care for you?
These things, needs personal experience and not somebody writing a
10,000 word thesis for you.
I would ask gals to interact more, know how to see whether guys are
sincere, or are more concerned in getting you in their beds or you
as a trophy.
With more self control and not giving in so fast, you learn the
ancient art of courting. Not flirting or laying trap, but really
know someone.
Well, I am not saying you will win all the times, but yes, after
some success and failures, you know when guys try a fast one or
guys really sincere in knowing you. And then you decide whether to
take the next step.
These are all things that are so delicate and enjoyable. Don't
tarnish relationships or getting to know someone as a trap.
When you find someone who really on the same wavelength as you,
enjoy that feeling. It makes you feel so alive. And that's what we
should live for.
Look at the brighter side of things. 
