Pommes frites SG im sorry to say this..but its not a matter of "how much i wish to perform with her"its a matter of how she is treating me. her oversight?pls.if i were her...i would still go for the practice and see how it will turn out.i mean...obviously its because she had no faith in me.and thats why she doesnt see the need to practice because it would be a waste of time.
FeowFeow SG Aww, I felt bad too, when I had to leave, but I'd made a promise, & I had to stick to it lah Also hor, he's been so poor thing also, wait for me because he bought me something to eat FeowFeow
pinkygal76 SG no la...of coz there no denying the facts that you feel veri play-out by yr frenz for now but ask yrself...is it worth lossing a good frenz just becoz of a SINGLE EVENT.....A competition??..... its completely normal to be pissed off for now....... just cool it....... when the whole thing is over...... find a chance to express calmly how you feel....you knows ....you two may just laugh over it ......... but again watever yr decision is.....to let go of the frenzship....we will respect yr decision
pinkygal76 SG TMM session.....of coz cannot neglect the rodent hor...... or else he will be squeaking at you whole weekend long wor
Pommes frites SG well...maybe why im really angry is because she is my close friends.. and i did suggest to her that if i don play very well...den maybe she can consider going there alone instead of me playing for her coz i don want to drag her down. which for me,i juz want to see how things will turn out today...and she had to give this kind of excuses. which if after today..if i don play very well..i would still encourage her to go there alone coz i don want to drag her down.(which she agreed) but the thing is that...she didnt even give me a chance.
smudgey SG as I mentioned, sometimes facts may be subjective... but then again, it depends if you think that the friendship is worth all these work.
pinkygal76 SG hahaha.... sometimes i tend to think i have not matured to a certain level too....... especially when i neglect Somebody feelings oso.......... hey not to mention the fact that i am ALMOST 30 hor....... maturity is not measured by the age factor ba but french fries we are know how disappointed you are with yr frenz now...... just cool it for now....i am sure if she values you as a frenz....she will try to make up eventually for the insensitivity & hurt she is inflicting on you now...... no point confronting or talking abt it now....the more you or she say...the more frustrated both of you will get......trust me on that
smudgey SG ya that's why you must cool down first before you confront her... give it a thought, years down the road, this might seem so trivial that you'll regret losing a friend over it
pinkygal76 SG you guys are suppose to be close frenz rite?? so why let a SINGLE competition affect yr frenzship le????..... If she explains and apologise on her action later ....just dun get angry and put her down.... if she dun care...she will not even bother to explain..... just cool it for now......na......pink jie offer you a strawberry milk shake to cool you down ni yi kou...pink jie yi kou
Pommes frites SG yah i understand..coz i am aware that both of us understand that no point talkin about it now...and she also mentioned that we should not meet up till we have cooled down..
drx SG agree with cherry maturity is not measured by the age factor.. I got betray by my own friendz once. cut long story short. I treat them well they call me names behind my back. Sometimes friends come on go. is best not to hold on too much, Or else you will get hurt pretty bad. Luckily i found candy, i feel that i have not treated her well becos i was too busy with other stuff and work. She has been waiting for me patiently all this time. I feel i have let her down alot.. Most impt person i feel is your bf or gf as they stuck to you in times of need.