Interesting.....
From my experience some girls intensely hate guys who are
desperately chasing after her and can't take a hint. Well as guys,
we do love the hunt and how can we hunt when our prey isn't
running? Here is my advice, don't seem like you're overly
interested in her. Treat her like a lady. Ask her out when the time
is right. Respect her decision to dish or turn you down, but be
nice to her instead of wallowing in self-pity.
Oh and "love" is an undiluted word that is too strong for you to
use in this scenario. Replace it with "like", cause if you "love"
someone, you'd want them to be happy instead of being persistant
that she be yours only. Love is freedom.
Case 1: If I know she doesn't like me the way i like her, I will
only ever try to persue whenever it seems convinient. (eg. after
work I could ask her as a friend if she'd want to join me for
dinner, to build rapport between us)
Case 2: If I know she likes me, but is already attached, I will
consider only carefully. I will not want her to feel like i'm
pulling her away from her bf, but yet at the same time, give her
another option if ever she becomes single again.
Patience is key to every good relationship, never rush through.
Even with girls I get turned off easily when they have no patience.
Always show her the respect she deserve. No woman should fall
victim to heartaches and heart breaks.
