Would you call her if you were me? Part2

last SG · 2006-03-27T16:46:06+00:00

What do u mean u screwed up? What really happened?

The Den SG

Abit lazy to look for my thread so I started a new one..
pls refer to old one.. Cool

It's over. She quitted. I asked her manager directly Neutral

Although we never progressed past general talk and a quick "hi" when we bump into each other, I still miss her...

So all of my "going around and hoping to bump into her" method had fallen flat on my face. Confused

Would you call her if you are in my shoes?

Maybe I Have her contact but can't call her? The intranet removed her name and contact on fri.. heng ar.. Mr. Green

798 SG

why so lazy?

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=182828

browniebaobao SG

browse thru ur topics also so lazy, how to woo girl?

newcomer SG

It takes alot of courage to take the first step. Even if you’ve failed in wooing her, seeing her um chio is an achievement in itself.

BrUtUs SG

good chance to call her... go ahead...

darknessfall SG

quit???????? wow..so sudden ar??
poor den!

hey...why dont you try another softer approach.. get her email from her friends if you are brave enough...and send her an email first...
start from something like, hi, i wonder if you still rem me....just got the news that you quitted....blah blah blah...

sending an email is not as unexpected as sending her an sms...

its all up to you lah..i also dunno will work or not..depends on the gal too...hehe...

if you are really gun for it, go go go..once its gone, its gone...
Rene Lau song "hou lai"

The Den SG

Hey darknessfall

I only have her company email... so most likely its already disabled.. I thinking of calling her... but I want to respect her privacy at the same time...

Komon SG

At least u got her hp num rightt? Make full use of it lah! Laughing

The Den SG

Laughing

I feel so down Neutral Where to find the mood to hunt for my topic....

browniebaobao SG

Rolling Eyes

huiz SG

i know this may sound like looking for a needle in a haystack, but maybe u can try searching for her in frenster? using her name, or if u can get her email address from her colleagues. it depends on ur luck oso...she must have a frenster account too. if u r really tat lucky to find her frenster, msg her to say hi & say u found her frenster by chance...blah blah blah. all the best to u. Wink

darknessfall SG

i mean, ask from her colleagues if they have her other emails...
well, just try and ask around....

firstly, tell us, are you going to give up like this? Rolling Eyes

FBI SG

haha true Cool

anyway dude, there's always gals ard so don jus stick to one tree.

The Den SG

Hi thanks for the advice

She dun have friendster. I asked the first time we met Mr. Green

The Den SG

Darknessfall

I think you are a love doc Mr. Green

I think I will call her... but dunno if she even remembers me a not.. Rolling Eyes

The Den SG

Easier said than done.
As lame as it sounds, I think I like her..

If she really hate me, I want her to reject me before looking for a new tree in the forest Wink

chunyong SG

use the tactic ‘Ye Li Cang Hua’, hide the flower in the leaf….remember

berll SG

since you have the courage on this, then y not give her a sms first?

if she asks about how did you get her number, maybe u can try something like mentioning about her absence in office and you've found out recently that she had resigned. Hoping to meet her again, you went through may ways to get her number.

jus sms her lah, it's better than u regret in the future. i had a similar case like this, 8 years, still...the feeling is damn f**ked up.

Xcert SG

I agree on this...send an sms...asking if she minds U sending sms to her...if she minds...send her a final sms syaing that U will not bother her again(and mean it)...throw the number away and that's about it.

choco B SG

Uh, is she single?