broken lunch date

last SG · 2006-03-26T13:58:36+00:00

my belief is that she can't come out with a clear reason that's why she comes out with generalities like ''something on last min''. at least she could have t...

browniebaobao SG

one time only and u think she is playing hard to get? Rolling Eyes

RHluvW SG

we have seen each other quite a few times

RHluvW SG

i dunno... there are so many possible reasons but the ultimate fact is she has put me on aeroplane.

huiz SG

from wat i think...agreeing to go out wif u could mean she treat it as a fren outing...may not mean she likes u..its hard to say. she could really have something on tat day.

if she is playing hard to get, r u gonna give up? Rolling Eyes

huiz SG

come on...dun be too petty abt her putting u on aeroplane...at least she told u she cant go. u din wait there in vain.

browniebaobao SG

Then I think u are petty leh.

How long do u know her?

Why do u think she put ur aeroplane? Bcos she dun feel comfortable going out with u? What's the impression u give her?

Even she had a reason, she might not feel the need to tell u specifically why she could not meet u, for it might be a very personal thing? For example, her auntie visit, she's just not in the mood to go out.

RHluvW SG

i dun see any reason why she should play hard to get when it's just askin her out for lunch. Another thing is why would someone play hard to get if she likes him? If i like her that much, i may not give up.

RHluvW SG

no it's not abt the petty issue here...it's abt whether she is interested in me.

huiz SG

sometimes gals do play this 'play-hard-to-get' trick even on someone they like. maybe they dun wan to be seen as too easy to get to the person they like.

RHluvW SG

i dun know her for long. perhaps that's the reason.

huiz SG

its hard to tell if she is interested in u or not by just breaking a lunch date. u have to try a few more times to see. if she rejects subsequent dates or tells u last minute she cant go, i think most probably she is not interested.

huiz SG

i think wat u can do now is to get to noe each other better first before asking her out again.

browniebaobao SG

Maybe you should read up M©+square's post on why girls should play hard to get at Dating Advice forum.

RHluvW SG

this is troublesome. why shd girls play hard to get? I mean, if u truly like someone even just as a friend, it's rude in my opinion to put ppl on aeroplane unless the reason is really valid which at this point, is unlcear. There's simply no class.

beavan SG

maybe there was really something that cropped up at the last minute?

anyways, playing hard to get and putting ppl on aeroplanes are different things totally..

huiz SG

u keep saying she put u on aeroplane...do u mean u actually waited for her in vain at the place? then when u call her she say she smthg to see to, cannot come?

u have to know everyone have their own personal lives. she is not obliged to go out wif u.

silv3rgal SG

if she does that to you for the second time.... i think you should get the idea...
it doesn't sound like she's playing hard to get... but more like she's not giving you enough priorities....

sometimes even as friends.. you book them first... but later on when someone else asks them out (which may or may not be urgent), they will just push away your agreed outing..

if she's such a person.. aiya.. forget about it lah..

Xcert SG

be a gentleman and try one more time...if that one also fails...then U can give up already...

RHluvW SG

no... luckily she informed me earlier.

huiz SG

then at least not so bad lah...perhaps she has not reached the level of interest in u yet...

oso, be more understanding...wat if one day u were in her shoes? u hav to cancel a date coz u got something urgent to attend to? like tat mean u r rude to the person who asked u out?

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