Hi,
I've problem getting well with girls..
i have friends who are very popular with girls..
girls will often initiate to talk with them..
play around, touch around in a friend way..
but i have problem acomplishing that..
i can't go higher a level in getting better with girls..
i'm man! 
without good
communicating skills 
Can any successful-with-girls guys OR preferably honest girls give
some valuable tips and advices?