Haha, I think I know wad to do. What I am going to tell u is
damn dangerous to all guys and girls . Use it only on those who
really worth it.
All girls and guys go into relationships for positive feelings.
Since this is girl's problem, I skip the guy's part . Use the 1000
yrs old girl's method , play it hot and play it cold. Make him
thinks you like him very much, but when he is a bit sure , and
wants to take some actions, give him chance to go after you ,
ignore him and let him work hard. (If he cannot make it) He give up
halfway , give him a hot again , like message him a good morning ,
suggest a date , depends how demoralise he is. Then ignore him
again .
Never give a sure reply unless it is a confirm no. When you see him
in your everyday life , juz smile very very sweetly and ( turn your
head for him ) look into his eyes for 3 sec and walk away without
hesitation.
Handsome guys ( like me ) got so many choices , everyday got so
many girls hint here and hint there. However , like all humans,
they are cheap, they want those they cannot have . However, because
they really got few chance to work very hard on girls, their
threshold of failure is very low. That's why , when a not bad girl
, shows her feelings for him, he will juz forget about working hard
on another girl and go for the easier target.
However, it is possible one. First , get his attention again. Do
something he wants dearly and will never expect to come from you.
What you do in the past, do exactly the 180 degrees way. Examples
are , suggest a dinner after work la, take the initiative to talk
with him ( this is wad the other girl is doing I think). This will
at least give him a message " hey, I am giving you one more chance
to make your decision" , he might slow down with the other girl and
rethink again.
Next when he " has take you for granted" , bite him hard and leave
some scars. When he thot, lol, I am so handsome, this girl is
smitten by me . Suddenly, he sense this girl has suggested 2
dinners after work but I haven hear from her for 1 week already ,
where is she ah ? will there be a third time ? Is she with so other
guys or not ? I better check her out. He will call you or sms you.
Say you are busy and keep the talk short, sms him yea, these few
days got something to work on lo.
Then he will think of all the plans that you will agree to go out
with him. When he ask you , tell him you cannot confirm and will
let him know later. Reply him only after 2 days and cut the date
short , by saying you are not going to miss some drama that you
have been watching everyday. I bet now, he will think of you day
and night
In all his days as the handsome guy, no girls dare to " punish" him
in this way. You seemed to like him very much initally then
suddenly you are not willling to give up your drama for him, W***
T** H***. You agreed to go out with him, then you are so
mysterious. You are juz like a puzzle, the little boi is already
inside the maze , he will want to solve the puzzle even if he dun
like to solve it.