Originally posted by The Den:
Hi all
Please be patient and read my situation. I'm trying to go into
detail. Thanks.
[b]From one month ago:
I have this crush on this gal in my company. I had start talking to
her when we sat beside each other during a mass coy meeting. We
have spoken to each other, but it's only about general stuff, and
"safe" topics... nothing too personal yet.
After the meeting I don't really have the chance to sit down and
talk to her again. Nowadays we smile and wave to each other when we
meet along the common corridor, or bump in to her at the pantry
while getting my milo. But I didn't ask her for her conatact number
'cos I too shy. And maybe because she looks busy and looks like
she's in a hurry
Well I'm from a department where I will be out of office most of
the time, depending on instructions, even reducing my chance to
bump into more often.. whether in the canteen downstairs or where
ever. If I have a choice I bump into her every 2 minutes 
Fast forward to This morning fri
Was browsing through surfing sgforums, soccernet, and all the
nonsense making me feel bored..
Clicked to the default home page realised my manager had used my pc
and didnt log out of the staff directory intranet
I have a feeling I did something bad or wrong here....
I went to the staff directory and looked up her name
And copied down her mobile phone number. Don't ask me why I did
that, I just felt it's just too good to be missed out at that
time.
When I finished copying down her number, I was elated for about 3
minutes. Then I realised, maybe it's not so good after all.
Do you think I can call her? What would she think of me?
I like her but havent been seeing her around for the past few
days.. so was thinking of calling or sms-ing her...
Is she ill? Or maybe on leave? Or quitted/ sacked? 
The main point is to know how's she doing because I haven't been
seeing her around for the past week.
Would you call her if you are me?
Thanks for your good advice[/b]
You only have one
chance to begin this relationship on a good impression - to call
her means you have given up this chance or worst, incur negative
impression.
Cheers
