smallcloud SG haiz.. i lost my wallet (a black coin pouch from the wallet shop) early this morning.. dropped it in a comfort taxi. i've called them to dispatch the lost to all the cab drivers..but evidently THAT driver didn't respond. either that, the wallet has been picked up by someone else already. got alot of my cards inside..including my student card (my exam coming soon.) let alone the money.. haiz.. and becoz of the whole incident, had a quarrel with my bf. same thing. he feels we should reconsider the relationship. so sad.. this coming tuesday we 6 months anniversary le. so near, yet so far.. i sorta felt abandoned when he told me to go home. i didn't need him to pacify me.. i juz wanted his presence. although this time it could be becoz of the way i msged him which he claimed made him feel like he's not the one for me. but i had told him time and time again. leaving him was a thought that has never and will never cross my mind. so sad.. why can't work things out? 2 people sure to have differences. why muz always choose the easy way out? am i really that hard to be with? wat is compatibility? why is it so hard to keep a relationship going? sometimes love ain't just enough.. is that so? double heartbreak.. i really hope that who ever picked up the wallet, u can hav the money la. not much also. juz return me the cards.. my exams around the corner..i need my student card back.. pls..
coffeeortea SG huh.. i doubt u both just quarreled because of this right.. theres something else u not telling us? gl anyway.
starblue SG gal, losing a wallet will never be the main cause of a breakup. he must have had doubts about the rs way before… try talking to him, find out wad he’s feeling. but my guess is, his feelings for you may have changed.
Ah Cek SG 6 months is too short to test a relationship. i pak tor with my gf for 7 YEARS then customary marriage. ROM still not a guarantee...only a paper. give each other a chance to speak. one way traffic is dangerous. watch out.
smallcloud SG my guess is because we are 2 very different people. he's practical and more of a thinker. i'm a more emotional-driven person. in terms of handling things, in terms of mentality , we are also different. he's mature,.but he feels i'm not. i'm just upset coz i tot such things can be come to a compromise, or accomodating. 6 months is too short to decide if we are compatible. i really wan to work things out.. but he chooses the "short term pain better than long term pain".. which really hurts me deep inside.
Ah Cek SG he may be right leh...short term pain better than long term pain...dun u think so? you wish to feel hurt all the time meh? i've broken off 2 times (they initiated de). they also say the same thing. i accept lor. wat to do? now i live happily ever after with the 3rd. the end.....
darknessfall SG takes 2 hand to clap.. just focus on your coming exams first..worry about r/s later.. as for your cards, hopefully the person will return it to the police and they will call you soon.. if not, go back school and report lost. get a temp one for exams
Magnus SG Yes. sometimes love ain't just good enough. Issue is not compatibility. Only accommodation. If we love someone, we will stand by them. Regardless of character differences & flaws. Take care.
StarPuppy SG Cheerful Cheers smallcloud I am sorry to hear about the loss of your wallet, and i hope you get it back untouched at all...with all the money and your important belongings why can't work things out? 2 people sure to have differences. why muz always choose the easy way out? am i really that hard to be with? wat is compatibility? why is it so hard to keep a relationship going? sometimes love ain't just enough.. is that so? Lets put it this way...maybe both of you had a bad time...i think maybe u should sit down and have a cooling down period...maybe consider if its worth it? If everything was so was perfect for a couple and they have the same thinking Would Love be precious in everybody heart? would there be such thing called as Love? You are not hard to get with...( I never belive anyone is)maybe you are just with the wrong person at the wrong time... Relationship is created not only love alone but by understanding, giving chances to one another, concerning to each other needs..Relationship is not a simple "I love you and you love me" issue.. To love another person, you must understand, consider, feel what the other person is feeling and also not mind be the losing end at times ~+Cheers+~ StarPuppy
BadzMaro SG quarrel over a lost wallet resulting in reconsidering of relationship ? true or not.. Like that its not Love aint enough.. there was no love at all.
hopy SG smallcloud... all i can say is u r not alone.. but the top piority now is to finish up ur exams 1st.. the rest can wait... although i know its hard not to think abt it now.. but still.. try to tell urself to really concentrate on ur exams 1st..
FBI SG abt your coin pouch.. the only thing u can do now is wait. As for your relationship.. quarrel is quite a common thing, after every quarrels u will realised that your relationship will get better
nullifi3d SG I sympathise with you and i hope everything works out for you. Try talking to your bf abt the r/ship part. The lost student card you need to report to the Student's General Office weeks before the exam or else jialat.
smallcloud SG he said he was afraid i would leave him when i start to work full-time. this is the reason i tot of for his asking-me-to-reconsider. (1)he is afraid of being hurt in future. so he rather i think properly now 1st. but at the end of the day, he loves me. but from some of the opinions i've gathered, they felt that it is (2)he is uncertain about the relationship. and in a way, asking me to reconsider is sort of hinting me not to put so much hope into the relationship. which is it? he loves me , he loves me not? i also dun wan to b hurt again. we both had a bad experience b4 each other. he said he got over it, but now it seemed otherwise. *though its already been more than 3 yrs ago* i really wan to love him so badly. but how? how can i make him understand that nothing is gona make me leave him unless its becoz he's unfaithful to me?
smallcloud SG he said he was afraid i would leave him when i start to work full-time. this is the reason i tot of for his asking-me-to-reconsider. (1)he is afraid of being hurt in future. so he rather i think properly now 1st. but at the end of the day, he loves me. but from some of the opinions i've gathered, they felt that it is (2)he is uncertain about the relationship. and in a way, asking me to reconsider is sort of hinting me not to put so much hope into the relationship. which is it? he loves me , he loves me not? i also dun wan to b hurt again. we both had a bad experience b4 each other. he said he got over it, but now it seemed otherwise. *though its already been more than 3 yrs ago* i really wan to love him so badly. but how? how can i make him understand that nothing is gona make me leave him unless its becoz he's unfaithful to me?
