how do i know if she likes me

xtreme223 SG

i did ask her if she likes me, but her ans is 'I got no ans for u' and she says she dont dislike me that is why she still goes out with me..to me she is just playing hard to get. and of coz i got everything to lose ($$$$) and time will be spend on her.I can sense that she do like me but I just want some confirmation from her.So the problem is

1.how can i test if she really like me?(she is quite strong will and stubbon in her mouth,simetimes bochap also)

2.how can i tell her to go dutch whenever we are out

3.how to let her show affection towards me first? (coz I am always the one who will hold her hands or kiss her)

dunn1e SG

well… build the tension…. just don’t touch her for a long time… if she really likes you or have the chemistry for you… she’ll rape ya!

xtreme223 SG

ans:
2.haha..the problem is how to let her touch me first?
3.of coz i kiss her on the lips,passionate kiss somemore,but the next time we met ,its like normal friends again ,lack of b/f g/f chemistry
4.she do laugh at my stilly jokes many times,but i seem to be running out of ideas
5.i did stop sms her for 2 days and finally she sms me to say she will leave work early,which means she wanted me to ask her out.The thing is she just refuse to say that she wants to meet me.

coffeeortea SG

all the better to snort cocaine with Laughing

motoway SG

U realli sound like a perfect guy.. Embarassed

Anyway, to the thread starter, i tink she treats it that she is using her body to exchange for ur gifts and presents..She probably dun wan a commited r/s wif u.. Dat's y she didn't gif u an ans when u poped the qn..

She allows u to kiss her coz she noe u will further shower her wif gifts and stuffs.. My bet is for u to move off since there is no advancement in the r/s.. Btw, is she those pretty and high mantainence ger?? If it is, then sh'e most probably playing wif ur heart..

How do i noe?? Coz i'm a ger also.. Laughing

xtreme223 SG

no choice now..i stpped sms or block her from msn...see what is her respond
gotta play the act cool game..see how it goes

xtreme223 SG

I think u are quite right, but I am still not really convince until she reject me right in my face.it will feel better then hanging in the air.I think with my qualities i am defintely up there.Am i too confidence? or her standard a bit too high? she did told me she rejected one of her suitors right in the face but for me she just dont have an ans for me. i didnt shower her with any gift at all .just dinners & movies.

I am really lost ,this is the first time i am facing this kinda stituation.She is one hard nut to crack!

motoway SG

It's realli ok to be confident.. But i'm reali doubting her intention for this relationship.. I mean.. If she likes you, she will tell u straight wun she?? Gers are emotional creatures and most gers will shower the guys she likes wif love likewise..

Maybe u're like a throphy bf where she can show off to her frens coz u drive?? i shldn;t assume too much thou, good luck on this r/s.. The nxt time she sees/ask you out, pop the qn again and asked her out for a committed r/s..

Good luck buddy! Wink

yuko-ogura SG

she allowed u to kiss her and hold her hands?at least she din reject ur advances.

but then again,it could be she was taken aback by ur actions--->at a loss for words and wad to do next.

for example, ur gd fren (of opposite sex) suddenly kisses u or hold ur hands.

in a shocked state,would u have time to react?

u wouldn't want to hurt her too(by rejecting her).

thread-starter,how would u react then?

yuko-ogura SG

this is the first time im agreeing with motowae..( Mr. Green )

if the ger really likes the boi,she would really go all out to show that she likes him.

but then again,it could be becux u two are still in the initial stage of courtship.

in other words,she hasn't decide which ladder u belong to.

frens or potential bfs?

she wouldn't tell u.u would have to decipher from her actions and emotions.

xtreme223 SG

yes, i agree with u..since i pop the qn she shl either say yes or no.But her ans is 'we are moving too fast' if she realli like me she wouldnt let me wait or playing hard to get. I think she is looking for other better guys and in case she cant find one, she can still fall back on me.

So do u think i shl let her play the hard to get game? what shl i do instead?
stop all contacts with her?

xtreme223 SG

can anyone suggest a good way so that i can make her reject me or accept me? she is just now giving me ans which is hanging in the air…...The only way i think of is to stop sms or msn her. Is there a good way to test her? or get her jealous?

harryryan SG

my advice is short n sweet: Just wait Laughing

Fey Mae SG

agree. telling a girl about her being overweight will HURT even very slim girls, from what i know Embarassed then again im overweight, and i dont find it amusing to get teased about my weight all the time. Crying or Very sad

Xlashes SG

First , this girl is very weird, so I guess she is very attractive.
Second, this girl is too scary for me.
Third , dunnoe i think we share the same master, very similar strategies
Forthly, the teasing does works on girls, dun think they feel insulted.
Lastly, you dun have to spend extra time and money , just do what you want to do and ask her along. Even going NTUC to buy things can be a form of dating.

dunn1e SG

Don't ask her out... ask her to tag along... having coffee is good. hav a nice conversation to build rapport and stuff. For the jealousy part... go out with other girls too.. let her know that... or you could ask her to tag along with your friends... have some girls in it.. she will feel the competition Twisted Evil i think Rolling Eyes

motoway SG

I wld suggest that u stop any advances on her eg, kiss her. Perhaps holding hand wld be ok..

Try not driving her arnd for maybe 2 weeks or so.. Say ur car is in service.. Meals and such.. Erm.. Bring her to hawker centre and eat.. No high class restaurants and such.. It's still ok to treat her i guess..

But if she reali asks u to buy ex stuffs for her.. just gif excuses like " sum other time" and such..

Try it out for a week or so.. If aft the 2 week she totally ignores u.. U noe the ans..

If aft such things happens and she is still keen (as in veri interested in you), she cld probably know how much u mean to her and treasure u more.. Wink

Good luck again.. Razz

motoway SG

Originally posted by dunn1e:
Don't ask her out... [b]ask her to tag along... having coffee is good. hav a nice conversation to build rapport and stuff. For the jealousy part... go out with other girls too.. let her know that... or you could ask her to tag along with your friends... have some girls in it.. she will feel the competition Twisted Evil i think Rolling Eyes [/b]

I agree to the having coffee part.. It's a good way to connect wif her.. If she shows disinterest in toking ot u.. Like restlessness and boredom.. Perhaps it's time to move on.. Wink
And perhaps make known ( in a not so obvious way that u do not lack suitors).
Go sumthing like " ytd, a ger in collegue said she had a major crush on me" or sum stuff liddis.
But tell ur gf that U are not interested in the ger and u onli love her.. (go figure which her is "her" as in ur gf) Wink

If she nonchalantly shrugh, well.. Confused

xtreme223 SG

haha..i have already tried what u suggested.But,when i date her out she would ask me to date the other gal instead since the other gal like me.Make me feel worst!

motoway SG

Well, then it's kinda obvious isn;t it?? Why are u still holding on?? It's kinda sure that she's not beri interested in u. Or else.. Why in the world wld she ask u to date the other ger??! Wink

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