YuPLeNg SG My friend said this to me, "I was initially attracted to you because I thought you look like someone with lots of inner beauty. But now, I realised you don't have any. So basically, you don't have inner beauty nor outer beauty. " What was that supposed to mean? Im so shocked and lost. What exactly defines inner beauty? Looks like im not cut out to be a woman....haha...
Qing^.^ SG Umm my definition of tt is someone with a good heart, caring, kind, helpful, etc.. jus character traits tt are good lor..
M©+square SG Your friend is guy? YES? If not he would not be attracted to you. Inner beauty. Could be a natural character which will draw favour from people around.
YuPLeNg SG well, I've been pretty kind and caring towards him. Everytime he needs me there for him, I would be there as much as possible. But I definitely didn't expect this from him?? Perhaps his definition of inner beauty is someone of brains and wits...since he's always saying that im very stupid!
M©+square SG He's quite definitely not looking for someone with inner beauty. Basically, he wanted you to be interesting....but unfortunately, he didn't find it in you. When a guy went to a point of saying you're stupid. It could be playful tone. OR He's trying to pull a stunt on you already. I hope he's not your bf...
Qing^.^ SG Umm did he meant it when he said u were stupid? Mayb u did something to provoke him into this sudden attack on u?
YuPLeNg SG what kind of stunt do you mean? its definitely not playful tone. He's very convinced that i am a stupid woman.... Guess my life is boring compared to his..Im more down to earth kind...He's the funky and wild type...
Jon G SG I think he's bullsh--ing. How can you tell someone has "inner beauty"? "Inner beauty" is discovered, not "predicted". Sheesh. Maybe what he's trying to say is that your personalities don't match? I don't know...
gerrykoh SG Why hang out with a guy who puts u down? Look for someone who can appreciate your good qualities.
smudgey SG inner beauty is just good charateristics.... like kind hearted, sweet, cheerful, polite...etc. by the way, the way your "friend" said all those things to you, he/she does not have any inner beauty either.... so it's not your loss!!!
drx SG inner beauty is the X factor which makes someone stand out in a crowd of girls you see everyday. If the guy cannot see it or treasure it means he does not feel anything for you. Inner beauty is the believe in oneself. The strength to stand up and say that you are who you are no matter what people say. You live life for yourself not for any others. Thats why is stronger the outer beauty becos outer beauty will fade in time but inner beauty will not and it will grow stronger against all odds.
babymac13 SG Inner beauty refers to the beauty of the character and personality of a person pocessed. Inner beauty is real and natural, not make up.
drx SG Is very mean to call a person stupid. Why should you respect him when he is the dumb one who cannot see thru it all. You have done so much for him and he still call you names. One day when he grows old, he will know how people feels when he lose his looks. stay away from this type of guys.
browniebaobao SG wahlew, who's so zek ark? ur potential? gees.. how can one see the inner beauty at first sight? Doesn't make sense..
Ah Cek SG ....is something you don’t know its existence unless you get in touch with that person for long. for this to happen, you must got the look first, so people will want to know you, then explore your inner beauty later on. life is cruel isn’t it?
YuPLeNg SG i don’t know how to classify him..my ex? or my friend?.....Anyway he said that he’s stupid too cause he don’t know how to be a good bf to me too…He’s too used to his gfs doting on him and giving in to him all the time.. Perhaps we are just from 2 different worlds bah…
klishcia SG Hmm.. he must have seen your lungs, heart, kidneys, liver etc before cos thats your 'inner beauty'. He's actually saying, 'you're in poor health see a doctor soon.....'