My bro, I'm currently in the same situation as you. I am going
to tell my no.1 girl that I'm seeing other pple but I want to
reassure her that it's not because i dun like her or what. But it's
not fair to the other girls who want to get to know me
better.
The simple rule is, as long as you are not attached, it's fine to
DATE more than 1 girl. You are simply finding out more about the
kind of rite girl you want and it puts your mind in the correct
perspective.
What I mean is, usually when we date a girl and we really like her
alot, it keeps out mind focused on her. It's good and not good. Not
good because u do not become objective and are unable to see any
flaws. Dating other women helps u compare and know whether you
really want your present main target now.
Don't think that this is wrong. In fact, it's better. You are
simply doing your homework before you finally sign the 'contract
letter' to become her bf. Once you become her bf, u better be
serious n honor n stick by her as much as u can.
Of coz, dun simply go out with as girls as possible. For me,
besides my present main target, i intend to get to know better 2
other girls which is only fair for me n for the other 2 girls. I
will not hold myself back as long as i'm not attached.
It's true your main target will feel more at unrest and not be able
to take it. But u must be honest and tell her why you are doing it.
This is good also, a little competition is alwaz good. If she knwos
got other girls after u, she'll want u more. Women are strange lah.
They want what they cannot have, the dun want what they can have
infront of them.
I'm telling my girl today of my intentions. Anyway, i alwaz
believed in open and honest communication. If she wants me that
much, she has to put in the same effort to chase me =)
Use this in your love life too. =) It's always so easy for us men
to put women on a pedastel. Dun do that... onyl do that for your
wife. =)
