ok to me. love is complicated, differs from being to being,
illogical, yet is a very important part in our life. i am aquarius.
lol. no i dont see love as work. maybe i no think of it so far.
will write down more when i feeling better. now migraine.
i came up with this topic because
1 day i went to a dessert stall. i ordered mixed fruit cocktail or
something like that. but the husband go serve me a bowl of jelly
and ice. so the wife nagged at him la. then told him to go open a
can of fruit cocktail. but the man didnt open properly and started
using his hands to open the lid. so his wife again scolded him for
using his hands to open the lid. then she kept scolding him to be
careful and stuff like this. all this while the husband was shaking
his head.
then i was there thinking. obviously the wife loves her husband, by
telling him to take care when opening the can. but yet she chose to
nag at him. and he is there shaking his head.
then came my thoughts, we know we love someone, yet sometimes we
dont know how to express our love. if we were to nag our love like
the lady, her husband will not actually get her love and concern.
so we should talk it out in a nice gentle way. but how often do we
remember to do this? perhaps in the beginning of the r/s we will be
nice sweet gentle. but after long we will actually forget how to
express our love and concern.
then i thought we all know how to express our other emotions like
hatred, anger, happiness, sadness. yet why is it we find it so hard
to express love in a way that the other party gets the
message?
ya lor . so i post here.
in life , the hardest emotion/feeling to express is love.
