Snort . Early morning moanings of an insecure boy.
I think her change sparks fear in you that she's changed for the
better and she's moved out of your league. Keep her innocent cos
that's the kind of girls you can handle.
Earrings do not define character. (Sheesh we're not even talking
about sexy dressing here.) She didn't ask you to buy her expensive
earrings, so how is this materialism? Girls do pay more attention
to their appearance as they mature, and they follow fashion trends.
Unless you want a girl who wears a nun's habit, get used to
it.
On the other hand, your posts speak volumes about you - your
insecurity, your over-judgemental nature, and your puritan
streak.