Caught in a mix with friendships. (Help?!)

last SG · 2006-02-24T22:55:21+00:00

And I found out something. My two popular side friends, Yuan Ying and Ashley, doesn't have STUDIES!! in their minds. Yesterday, and it is the CA1 week, they...

LinLing SG

I need some advice.
You see, at my class, ALL the girls are so..fussy. It is always "I friend you" or "I don't friend you anymore!". And then, there was this BIG problem, which happened on Tuesday.
So then, Amanda, one of the popular girls and one of the favourite students among teachers, got into BIG trouble, and lost her popularity and her fame with the teachers.
So almost all my friends say "I don't like Amanda leh..so bossy, always order us around do this do that..hate her lah! Lucky we no longer her friends...HAH. Serves her right anyway..hope she die lah!"
And then they also pretend pretend to friend her. And during the All Girls Talk, only and just for girls, about what happens to all girls, and then there was this Questions time. So we answer one question correctly, get a prize. So then, I answered correctly and got a prize Very Happy and so did Amanda. And then the people whom I was "hanging" out with all said, "WAH LAO!! Amanda so SELFISH one! Never invite us to sit with her together!! STUPID lah her!" *grumbles grumbles*
But then, I felt so bad. I friend Amanda and I am like the ONLY person who really FRIEND her in the class. And everybody go and threaten me say, "If you friend Amanda, we don't friend you! Mad "
Omg, what kind of girls are these???? Aren't we all supposed to get along with each another and live in perfect harmony? Even HARMony have the word HARM inside!!!
Now, I am really confused. I really want to be in the "Popular Side" but not the "Nerds Side'' which I had been in for a longggg timeeeeeee!!!
ANYONE CAN HELP ME?

GoOdOnE SG

if i were u, i would rather friend Amanda den those girls if she's not as bad as them.

" And everybody go and threaten me say, "If you friend Amanda, we don't friend you! " "

wat kind of friends would sae tis to u? taking friendship so lightly.. tis kind of 'friends' bu yao ye ba if they could do tis to her now, they could do it to u sumdae...

Delta 5 SG

For a while I was like Shocked looking at his post...

Then I realised the threadstarter is 12 or 13 yrs old... Mr. Green

At this age you will tend to treat befriend ppl based on their appearance or popularity... Peer pressure is also a heavy influence...

In a few yrs you will think differently I hope...

korusu SG

sigh xiao mei mei also post here? haha can just friend friend both parties or not? make peace not war…..

Snoops88 SG

which one do u regard as your better friend? follow her then

ToffeeTruffles SG

Heyy, xiao mei mei. how old? sounds like problems back in primary school. anyway, if think amanda is a nice girl, and the otheres are only acting like that cos they are jealous, then follow your heart, fren amanda lorr. but if amanda is a bitch, but simply cos u feel sorry for her then u fren her, then not worth it lah.

school got more interesting things to look out for other than going through the Bitchy Saga day after day Razz

Devil1976 SG

THIS... My girl... You'll have to decide for yourself what kinda friend(s) you wanna have and what kinda friend you would wanna be...? Smile

kopiosatu SG

wtf??????????????

how did AA reach this state??????

smudgey SG

ya i was feeling the same thing... like WTH?

but thinking back..... kids at that age can be quite cruel...

my advise to u xiao mei, is ask yourself who u feel is more of a friend to u,

is it this Amanda gal or the other gals?

as horrible as this feels... take heart at the fact that this is not the end of the world whatever you choose.

I was in amanda's position once. and no matter how nice i treated all my classmates.... they just chose to "hate" me. it hurted a lot then... used to cry in my room all the time after school....

but a decade later... it is all water under the bridge... doesn't hurt anymore... and guess what, the friends that sticked to u through all that time... they are your real friends.

LinLing SG

Well, yea.
But then I friend Amanda, and Siew Hwee BUT Amanda DON'T like Siew Hwee and told me not to friend her or else she wun friend me. Crying or Very sad
I going to enter Sec 1 next yr, and yes, I might be young, but..wait. Is there an age limit for this forum thing?

LinLing SG

I am NOT a xiao mei mei!! Evil or Very Mad
Anyway, I can't friend BOTH parties!! And ANOTHER party came in. Argh, peer pressure peer pressure....--faints--
AND if I friend both, sooner OR later, both will ask me this truely annoying and irritating question. "Who do you friend most?" or "Who do you like to hang out with most?"

Friends. *shakes head*

playboy_1985 SG

i like your signature. beware of paedophiles who will PM you.

have a nice day. Very Happy

LinLing SG

I wanna have good friends and I wanna be a good friend.
And the problem now, is that no one wants to friend each another.
I really want to friend Amanda, but then I will be cast into the shadows again, just like last year. But if I friend THEM, then I be one of the popular kids...coz' then I won't be teased, bullied or whatever JUST like last year.
Problems problems....................................... Crying or Very sad

LinLing SG

Almost all the girls in my class take friendships lightly.
Hate it. Mad

drx SG

There There sayang sayang.
I understand how you feel. Is a choice everyone got to face when they grow up.
The only way out is to chose a group or a person to stick to and stick with the person.

I used to be friends to almost everyone but in the end everyone was worry if i leak any important information to other parties during exam period.

so is up to you to think who you want to be your best friend.

hyperactivechatterbox SG

Teenage angst…

Komon SG

Grow up please..

LinLing SG

Oh, and I forgot one more thing.
Don't reply to this if you nothing good to say, ok?

LinLing SG

Yup. Last time I stick to ONE person only. But ever since the incident on Tuesday the 21st, February 2006, I got all invited.
Shocked

lpx88 SG

i noe its rude but i jus have to say this:

your other classmates hu don 'friend' her are so bitchy