be a nice guy and then get crushed.. BADLY!!!

Agenda SG

last time got tis gal lor.. tis I always listen 2 ur sorrows and her nagging all those den go makan wif her or pei her til her friends come.. then she go wif tis other guy Sad

NO MORE MR.NICE GUY!!!!!!!

Then after she broke up wif her stead still wan 2 msg me and den duno say wat until I oso no mood reply and den msg me abt 4 times I dulan turn off hp.. LUCKY NV COME FIND ME Twisted Evil

Tis type of gal say wan find nice guy den always go ahead be heartbroken den come crawling bak 2 the 1 that truly love them

So my advice, DON'T BE TOO NICE MAYBE LISTEN 2 THEM ONCE IN A WHILE AND ASK ABOUT THEM!!!

RAWR!!!! Evil or Very Mad

Finally got that out, Ok I can move on wif my life liao Very Happy

AngGuKuay SG

Congrats dude. Sort of in the same situation. hope i can move on wif my life like u do... Sometimes it doesnt pay to be gd...

FBI SG

2 possiblities

she mayb waiting for u to woo her mayb she knows u like her or..

she is jus using u that's all.

this kind of gal throw away la!

rainee SG

not just girls do this kinda thing...

guys do it too Cool

darknessfall SG

you are trying to say "hao ma bu chi hui tou cao" isit?

congrats on your perservance in letting her go dude! Wait for the better one to come!
good luck Wink

iamsuper SG

I think you shoudl post something in english , rather than the crap you just posted

Janedoeslove SG

hohoho hi pple im newb since few days ago.

dude, isnt it great u manage to love someone, instead of hate?

i had a my nice guy like u too. but all the while i had a bf then. i confided in him cos my bf.. (sighz).

if she nvr says she doesnt like u, (provided u still love her), u shld continue to make ur effort n let her appreciate.

if not, get rid of her. (have u?)

BadzMaro SG

Picture this...

Being shot down by flak.. shot down.. crash landed bruised n battered... jsut to be gunned down by the straffing plane while u desperately try to get outta the burning plane .. Laughing

Janedoeslove SG

i think u shld be nice at least reply her sms. practise compassion. u dun need to be nice to her to meet her needs. be nice to urself by showing friendliness

alexkusu SG

Life is unfair. Dont play by the rules Mr. Green

Agenda SG

shut up la.. u tink ur english very good? I think I can make you cry lor

mushigen SG

For all the wimpy things threadstarter did, I salute him for not becoming the "spare tyre" after she broke off with her b/f.

Well done.

FeowFeow SG

Maybe because you've always been, & you'll always be, to her?

I had a guy friend like this too, & I was like this to the same guy friend, but we've always been friends because there was Nothing else other than a platonic friendship between us.

Remember, you were there for her outta your own free will. She is Not obligated to choose you as her bf.

Good Friend/Close Friend =/= Potential BF material

Open your eyes wide next time if you wanna be more than friends.

FeowFeow

zheyu SG

Boy and girl also go friendship lor.
maybe she thought you`re her friend....that`s all.
i thought you thinking too much le ne....

Devil1976 SG

Laughing

harryryan SG

BGR again.... yawn.... Laughing

schoolworkphobia SG

Confused

LinLing SG

Maybe she thinks u are the boy who she can CONFIDE in. That you are the guy that will offer her a shoulder when she is sad. That you are the guy that won't back off when she shows her real emotions.
BUT.
She can also think you are always there for her. So she is taking it for granted, taking advantage.
So..
You can see based on what she is doing. Is she trying to peek glances at you? Is she trying to talk to you?
OR.
Is she trying to AVOID you? Is she trying to steer off you?

Just observe and you see. Smile

MingFreeman SG

Gals are like dat one la. Go for tall yandao jerks then after being dumped or used then kpkb say all the nice guys are gay or married......knn

u do the same to her lo........pour your sorrows and troubles to her and go out wif her once in a while (you set the date).......then see her reaction.
If she bo chup u, then can f her off liao.

Being nice doesnt pay. Afterall, nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai Evil or Very Mad

Bomoh SG

At the last school assembly before I left my all-boys Secondary School, my principal warned us to be careful in JC. He said that even if a girl is really nice to you and likes being around you, it may not mean that she likes you and wants to be "more than friends".

I guess I've realized from others' stories and from my own experiences that he was quite right.

I spoke about this to a girl once, and she agreed, but she added that it also doesn't mean that she DOESN'T want to be more than friends, or that she's just treating you as a buddy.

So... I guess the bottom line is... if you feel something and you wanna know what the other one feels, you've gotta say something.

Yesno?