Complicated Heart

last SG · 2006-02-20T01:33:13+00:00

'Before'? How many times..? How often...? How have your relationship been going on...? Chatting online only most of the time...? So anything more than just...

FadeToBlack SG

Hi guys, first time posting in Aunt Agony... Wink (i'm always in chit chat)
always wanted to post my problems here, but everytime i end up keeping quiet and do things on my own...
Yeah, i've been here a few times and looking at posts and threads... seems like everyone has their own relationship problems...
But then, none of them seems to be as complicated as mine...

Since this is my first post, i won't be telling a 1000 word story cuz i had yet to plan.

But i want to say, i'm really in this complicated position.

I've been trying to 'save' this relationship for almost 6 months now..
And almost everytime i'm with her i make her sad... and she makes me sad..

I have thoughts of leaving, and i told her about it..
and to leave, she said i would make her sad...

To stay, to leave, i can't choose any of it...

Haiz..

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Make her happy then. Singapore life style is soooo hectic. wanna take a break before continue, but scare other people catch up you (in terms of education). How I wish I got a carefree life. Dude, go to beach and talk you heart out.

Heartzzz SG

Well, this kind of problems in relationships are so common…At the end of the day, its still up to you to make a decision…no matter which choice it is, make sure its one you won’t regret…..Make the best choice for the both of u…n that includes leaving each other if you have to….all the best….i dun want others to be like me…regretting what i chose…so my advice is, think carefully and make a right decision…cheers

browniebaobao SG

u have to provide more info in order for us to advise u on anything ya.

what happened that makes u try to save the r/s?

do u want to stay on or do u want to leave?

how sad? wat did she do to make u sad? wat did u do to make her sad?

every meet up ends with a quarrel?

Yunhaier SG

X2.

We have all the time in the world; you can begin your essay so that everyone can have a better understanding of your situation. Idea

Cheers

chunyong SG

dumbdumb! SG

haha. complicated meh. i think mine more complicated since my religion oso keena entangled inside hahahaha

FadeToBlack SG

I wanna provide more details but i’m very scared she might browse on this web, or her friends, anyway, i’m just scared she will know about this..

browniebaobao SG

Rolling Eyes

register another nick, dun use real names/nicks la.

dokono SG

what did she say? give me space/time/eternity ?

if she means any of this, well u better be careful and fast before she dumps u.

FadeToBlack SG

no...
but like.. she wants me to accept what she can do...

dokono SG

what can she do for eg.?

Devil1976 SG

Can PM some of us for advices if you like....?

FadeToBlack SG

its not the nick problem, but i believe if i say the story, and of course it is obviously is me already...

where got same story happens to other people on coincidental?

GoOdOnE SG

Originally posted by FadeToBlack:
Hi guys, first time posting in Aunt Agony... (i'm always in chit chat)
always wanted to post my problems here, but everytime i end up keeping quiet and do things on my own...
Yeah, i've been here a few times and looking at posts and threads... seems like everyone has their own relationship problems...
But then, none of them seems to be as complicated as mine...

Since this is my first post, i won't be telling a 1000 word story cuz i had yet to plan.

But i want to say, i'm really in this complicated position.

I've been trying to 'save' this relationship for almost 6 months now..
[b]And almost everytime i'm with her i make her sad... and she makes me sad..

I have thoughts of leaving, and i told her about it..
and to leave, she said i would make her sad...

To stay, to leave, i can't choose any of it...

Haiz..[/b]

better to make her sad once den everytime

browniebaobao SG

the world is v small leh.

it happened to me before.

FadeToBlack SG

haix... dont know if i shld say the story.. quite long actually...

i know her like 4-5 years ago... online...

do you guys call it a online relationship?

FadeToBlack SG

haix.. feel so lonely and miserable at this time… 2.58 am..

FadeToBlack SG

Maybe i shoud leave her...

I think she took me for granted...

Mankind do not learn to treasure things, until 1 day when they loses it.. then they realised the true meaning...

maybe its time for me to go... and she can regret forever..

goodbye guys... thanks for help.. but this death is inevitable..

Magnus SG

If you do not wish to reveal too much. Maybe for a start, why you wrote "And almost everytime i'm with her i make her sad... and she makes me sad.. " Question

And "she wants me to accept what she can do..."

Maybe if you can explain that in general terms.
You may be surprised that your problem may not be that unique.