ruxiang, i can tell you one thing.
before i started my transition, i had my male friendster account,
which basically no one cared about and i the only people adding me
were my friends that i knew.
after i started my life as a girl, i started getting messages from
strangers pratically everyday, and alot of friend requests as well.
i checkup their profiles, and they're ALL males, with lots of
pretty girls on their friends list. to them, we're just a
"collection".
truth is i never even talk to them. even when i do, i find them
extremly boring, because its hard to talk when you dont know your
common interests.
so...really, theres nothing to worry about them. its just a bunch
of guys who want to feel good by having pretty girls as their
friends, but 80% of them dont care about you.
