not fated?

ChairmanJay SG

everytime i go out with her or we had already planned the date and time. the god is there to play us. almost everytime we are together, there'll be rain. frm slight drizzle to heavy rain. i dunno why..one of my fren said that one of us is selfish. anyone believe that superstition?

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rainee SG

then change the plan to not go out and go and spend the day at each other’s house instead?

FeowFeow SG

Ok, my side is: Everytime I'm Not working, & I wanna go out, whoever my companion is, the sun will come out & shine very brightly, which I hate Evil or Very Mad It can be raining hard as hell whilst I'm getting ready, showering, changing, etc, but the moment I'm all ready to go, the sun comes out.

And this 1 incident, I swear it happened. My guy was at my place, waiting for me to get ready. It was nice & cloudy, but when I went near my window & my guy drew the curtain open further, as I neared the window, the sun actually started to glare! Evil or Very Mad

FeowFeow

dottie SG

i wouldnt be worried about this.

you can always meet up at each other's homes, or wait until the rain stops...and rearrange the plans. Also, why not call each other for a chat instead?

browniebaobao SG

that's so romantic. u should thank god. Laughing

Simple_Bear SG

I like the rain...

Embarassed

Nurofen SG

No, I always plan for a rainy day Cool

kopiosatu SG

simi not fated?

can go on date, be happy and make the best of it la.

some people don't even have dates.

Heartzzz SG

ya lor...i think walking in the rain is romantic lor..if only got 1 umbrella then the best...u 2 can share it and be close to each other...so nice...ha...Then can act nice guy by kana the rain more and u let the umbrella shield towards her side more...Sure get touched...ha

Last time my fren wan 2 chase a girl u know what he do? He wait with an umbrella outside poly and wait 4 the girl 2 come out u know? He was waiting for it 2 rain everyday but 2 bad no rain..Coz he wanna use rain as excuse 2 know the girl...so whats the moral? u should be happy with what is given to you...Everything happens for a reason...Any thing good or bad is determined by you...An optimistic person sees a challenge in every problem, but a pessimistic person sees a problem in every challenge....My english not very good but i hope u can see my point here...cheers

darknessfall SG

superstitious is what you believe it is.
fate is what you think brings a couple together.
Love is when you keep thinking about the person.

I used to be very busy and my ex was quite ok with her job with abit of time in hand. So she complained that i have no time.
Then things changes, and she became busier. So i complained. Then finally, we broke off.
actually, to be understanding to your partner is a very simple thing to teach, yet hard thing to learn and comprehen.

As for your case, it is just rain dude...In singapore, its either rain or shine. There is no in between. So, plan for wet weather programme. I am sure you can find alot of things to do indoor too.
Like some said, if it rains, spend time with her at home lah..Going out doesnt really mean quality time spend you know?
good luck.. Wink

Yunhaier SG

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Really... if you avoid such meaningless thoughts, you may actually do yourself a big favour. Idea

Cheers

nullifi3d SG

Always look on the bright side of life....

ChenW33 SG

Ya, i dun even have dates.. haha

browniebaobao SG

Laughing v drama leh.

i still remember how sweet my ex was on a rainy day.

He did many things that touched me..

but im not gg to share.. Mr. Green

Heartzzz SG

haha..Where got drama...true mah...must know do what 2 make a woman's heart melt @ the right time...ha..

Its all those little little things that we did that leaves a lifetime of beautiful memories rite? And these memories only shared between 2 persons mah..dun share dun share lor...ha

Quinsy SG

At least you're together and have many other chances to be together.

I never had my chance.