Bad Thoughts ? Or Just Thinking Too Much ?

last SG · 2006-02-17T11:21:48+00:00

haha...control urself and disappear slowly out f the r/s.

Sekundes SG

Any guy or girls have thoughts/dreams of seeing your gf/bf with other guys/girls, Like holding hands or other intimate stuffs?

Been having these thoughts,

I say I trust her yet I have the thoughts.
Feeling quite Weird and Sad when these thoughts occur.
Seemingly, Fear comes always in the wrong time.

Thinking too much ?

Man these thoughts are depressing...

charlize SG

Me thinks you have an unconscious desire for a menage-a-trois. Laughing

sinicker SG

i had such thoughts too..

the difference was my thoughts really did take place.

FeowFeow SG

I've dreamt of my guy with another girl.

I've dreamt of myself with another guy also Confused

But these are all dreams. I just tell my guy & both of us have a laugh about it.

FeowFeow

Sekundes SG

Yeap I told her about it and we just laughed it off.
I afraid these thoughts I might have constantly will become dis trust to my gf ?

drx SG

Action speaks louder then words show to her that you can do it and hope that she can follow. If not there is nothing to talk about,

Dreams are dreams but actions is more important.

FeowFeow SG

Erm, unless you're ALWAYS dreaming of it, then maybe got problem lah Razz

Otherwise, Not really... Once in awhile, got funny dreams mah.

FeowFeow

Sekundes SG

Hmmm thanks for the reply,
I think i might know what to do.

Any advice to stop this chain of thoughts ?
Is this fear of such happenings?

hopy SG

seems to mi tt u hv a sense of insecurity...

ur parent's marriage not a happy one isit?

FeowFeow SG

I dunno, I don't think about this kinda thing, because my guy & I are very lovey dovey. And the moment 1 of us feels insecure, we talk about it & it'll be ok. Just can't help it if the stupid dream happens like that what.

So I just tell him & we laugh over it lorr Razz Don't think too much about it, or it probably will end up a vicious cycle, & you get more & more insecure Razz

FeowFeow

Devil1976 SG

Be reminding yourself that it's not a healthy thing to constantly hold on to these thoughts...

If your gf really wanna do something behind your back, there're probably little you can do to stop her...

BUT if there're NOTHING... Think about how sad you might be making her with that distrust she don't really deserves... You could be driving yourself nuts and driving her crazy one day... TRUST is a VERY BASIC FORM of element in a relationship.. Without it, nothing much else could be secured for long.

drx SG

stop thinking too much and treasure every single moment you have with her now.

Since you cannot plan or predict the future.
The only thing that is true to you now is the present.
If she runs away in the future at least you can say that you have given her the best you can give and there is no regrets on your part.

A person can only give so much. Is up to the girl whether she knows how to treasure you or not. No point in fighting with something that has not happen and for someone that loves you for now only.

If there is still fear in you
Then can i say iif something happens to her, are you willing to give everything up and go with her?

hopy SG

so.. wat u driving @ leh?

how come lately u track my post alot huh? Confused

M©+square SG

Hmm....

To me when i have this thoughts(which is rare). 80% is accurate. Just waiting for the party to confess.

My Psychic level quite conscious.

Cheers

tango(TRE) SG

relac dude...TRUST is the key...may the force be with u...bring her out this sat...go ethan and my house celebrate... Cool

Sekundes SG

Haha I can't I'm working.
Anyway...
Dunno why My boss demanding me to work on sat and sun these few months..
Sianz canno go out with u guys...

Devil1976 SG

Nay.. I just like to HIGHLIGHT forumite's post when what they say MAKES SENSE and REMIND the Topic Starter again.. Not tracking you.. Just so happens that what you've posted above hit the same thought as mine...

BadzMaro SG

i agree... Laughing

babyreyes SG

From my point of view is....

at the moment u are in.......u are feeling insecure and ur subconcious mind is tryign to hint to u via ur dreams. Lolx.

Ok....I do hab experiences of dreams about me holdin ghands with another guy while i was attached with my ex. Forgotten which dream analysis i went to. But it somehow said i was feeling neglected by my bf. thats why i dreamt of such a thing. hhahaha

chill out....dont keep thinking about it...

nightsky87 SG

Originally posted by babyreyes:
From my point of view is....

at the moment u are in.......u are feeling insecure and ur subconcious mind is tryign to hint to u via ur dreams. Lolx.

Ok....I do hab experiences of dreams about me holdin ghands with another guy while i was attached with my ex. Forgotten which dream analysis i went to. But it somehow said i was feeling neglected by my bf. thats why i dreamt of such a thing. hhahaha

chill out....dont keep thinking about it...