Friend Avoiding Me?

social_misfit SG

Notice a little problem these few days.

One of my female sec sch friend whom I've not been keeping much in touch with but on my MSN messenger list seems to ve avoiding me online. I feel so weird, since I've not made an advances or suggest to date her at all.

A few days ago, I just happened to see her online after many months, so I messaged her usual thing like "Hello! how have you been?" Then I concluded almost immediately with "Busy at work now. Talk to you again if got chance."

Then yesterday and today, the moment I go online, she immediately goes offline. I thought yesterday was co-incidental, but today the same thing happens. When I just got online, she was online but within 2 seconds, she was offline.

I wonder if she's hyper-sensitive and think I will make advances towards her kind of thing, that's why she's trying to avoid me. Which i will then feel is funny, since I've not done anything to suggest that. Or is she afraid that I'll try to date her out today since she's single?

Woman, unfathomable...

hyperactivechatterbox SG

First things first. Are you interested in her?

SBS1985C SG

women they are too complicated for a 14 year old Laughing

social_misfit SG

Not really. I've other better choices. Just that I feel she's over-reacting when I've done nothing to trigger that reaction.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

You concluded or she concluded?

social_misfit SG

I concluded. Me...

le cruz SG

well, if you don't like her, then this shouldn't be bothering you at all Very Happy

ne0matrix SG

Laughing

parn SG

You're just too sensitive about this matter. Anybody can log out anytime they want and you shouldn't read too much into anybody's actions. Moreover she's not close to you, so you should not let your thoughts wander into some self-romantic situations.

Admit it, you do like her...or else her actions won't be affecting you right now. Smile

FeowFeow SG

Hey Parn, haven't seen you in a long while Mr. Green

Anyway, gotta disagree with you on this 1 Laughing 1 of my old friends recently went berserk on me, & although I don't like him in that way, it bugged me alot leh Razz

FeowFeow

ghimpheng SG

ya right............as if you very good like that other better choices.......

twiggies SG

Embarassed

hyperactivechatterbox SG

Well... it could just be that she's really busy, or you could be too sensitive...

parn SG

Hmm...care to explain which part you disagree? Question

boy in blues SG

parn is so clever de....
Mr. Green

nullifi3d SG

Did you run out of cash recently? Did your shares plummet? Did your parents lose big time on investment plans? Did you mention you were recweiving less pocket money? These are factors that make some girls wanna overlook you search for other preys.

Virusz SG

have you done something wrong to make her avoid you?

sometimes you might have did something which you don't even know of yourself.

so i suggest you try ask her straight to the face. ask her why is she avoiding you, and what you've done to make her do that. then do something to make up for it.

dokono SG

the fact is u are not close to her at all.

dun bother unless u really have feelings for her.

besides if she doesn't want to talk to u, why should u let a woman to affect u so much? there are so many women out there. assuming what u said is true, then she is not worth being ur friend at all. She assumes too much and that's her problem.

Get urself some self-respect and dun think abt her, dude.