I was in the same class with L in primary 6. We weren't really
close, just aquintances. We did not keep in contact after PSLE but
a few years later(in sec sch), we went out once in a while with 2
other friends.
We went to different sec sch and JC, and I stayed over at his house
for a few times to study for my A levels.
We saw lesser and lesser and each other during our NS.
But now in Uni, we take similar courses under the same department.
He stays in the Hall but I don't. Both of us made many new
friends.
He converted to christianity a few months ago. Don't be mistaken, I
have nothing against christians, but somehow I feel that our
beliefs and goals start to differ. I am very hardworking but he
tries to be more sociable, well maybe not, I don't know what he has
been occupied with, but he spends alot of time with church stuff I
guess.
I hang out with a few female classmates in school, and he has tried
to approach my friends when I wasnt around, introduced himself and
tried to make friends. My friends found him weird.
He's been wanting to have a class gathering, but since my term
tests are next week, I told him to leave me alone till after my
term tests. On Friday twelve midnight, he called me, waking me up
from my sleep, and very pissed, i picked up when the phone rang the
second time. I told him I am sleeping already and we hung up. Then,
he SMSed me. I can't remember what he said - I deleted it and I
don't care.
Saturday, I spend the whole day studying. He kept calling and
calling and calling for the whole day, which is very disturbing. I
told anyone who picks up the house phone to tell him that I am not
at home.
He wants to study together and asks me to help him with his
schoolwork. But I can't even cope with mine, how am I supposed to
help him? Furthermore, the correct person to approach for help will
be lecturers/tutors.
Today(Sunday), he keeps calling again, so I switched off my phone.
I am very pissed.
He does not understand that we are drifting apart because our
interests and our goals differ. I do not want to waste my time on
him but I don't know what I should do now. Saying it directly to
him will be too hurting, but if I don't, he just keeps pestering
me. Even if he knows how I feel, he may not leave me alone. What
should I do?
