just a thought on girls's thinking

last SG · 2006-02-10T20:34:02+00:00

You must have said something that she's doesn't like or did something that irritates her or behaved in a manner that displeases her. Nothing surprising, cos...

bladez87 SG

ok it is of course related to the girl i am chasing la.

so it is like this,

one day we were talking then she mentioned that her best friend had an ex who went chasing her best friend , called and talk to her best friend almost everynight. and she thought it was very sweet of him.

initially, me and her talk on msn almost every night, until 1 day she started finding me irritating.

so i was wondering, why is it when her best friend had a suitor who calls her daily, she finds it sweet. however when i did talk to her on msn , she instead got irritated. wondering wondering.

any answers?

the saying is quite right. when a girl likes a guy, no matter what he does is perfect for her. when the guy who she does not have feelings for do even the most sincere thing for her, she will still think it is stupid and lame.

rainee SG

if a girl u dun like does all the nice and sincere things for you, would you think they are lame and stupid as well?

bladez87 SG

that depends on the sincerity. haha =x
but not stupid la. just think is too bu bi yao.

Mao x 2 SG

He think he already answered his own question le.. Mr. Green

rainee SG

so exactly, the girl might be thinking that what you did for her is bu bi yao oso Laughing

bladez87 SG

my main question is. why her sudden change in attitude?
like the sweet part and suddenly become irritating part? hmm? not my saying?haha...dont divert my topic leh...

pie SG

Initially being polite...then as you keep doing it, gets irritating Very Happy

rainee SG

cos if a girl you dun like keep talking to you, will you feel very "fan"? Maybe the first few times, still can be tolerant and be sweet to you, but after a while, her true reaction will shine through?

Mao x 2 SG

C'mon.. she will need some breathing space too. Just try to cut down on the msn. Coz you are not her bf yet.

bladez87 SG

ya ya . i mean is
how come when her best friend , Z, had a suitor who called Z everyday when courting her, my xin shang ren J thought it was sweet?

then when i msn her daily while courting her and we were still on good terms, she went from good terms to irritating?
the first time i went out with her, she asked me out de. even though is to study la, but still Zzz.

rainee SG

she thinks it is sweet cos she might imagining the person she likes msging her?

she might think of you as a fren nia, but when she sense that you like her more than that, she started to try to keep you away from her?

bladez87 SG

haha true. true. i forgot that part. but when i confessed, i also asked if i stood a chance. which she replied , got chance but depends on my performance. haiz. regrets. if i can just go back to the past...

chunyong SG

depends on performance = she trying to play u around her pinkie....

find someone else lah

FeowFeow SG

Yes lorr, I also agree.

What performance? We're Not talking about a car here, we're talking human what. It's Not like she's a job & you hafta perform on the job what.

FeowFeow

hisoka SG

simple lah means she is a hypocrite and lied thru her teeth

MiX Metal SG

have you ever hinted to her your true feeling about her ??

bladez87 SG

i confessed. and she knew i like her even before she asked me out to study for the first time.

MiX Metal SG

How long ago was your confession ?? did you ask her about how she feels about you 2 starting a r/s ?

bladez87 SG

nope. no ask. aiya over le la. give up. what the above posters said quite true also. haha. but haiz. who ask me to like her. sianz. nothing much i can do. at her mercy. lol

no girls will like a guy like me too. lol