Originally posted by AnimalArmy:
Hi peeps,
Seriously need everyone's help? Anyone actually patches back with
his ex-gf before? I haf bottle my problems for months. I cannot
take it anymore. Pls help.
[b]My
Story
The relationship was like a fairy tale initially. But then,
neglection, misunderstanding and disagreements set in...
Broke off twice. An on both occasions, third party was
involved.
1st occasion, she went steady with another guy without letting me
noe. I thought the breakup was just as simple as that but until my
friend told me that she is in fact seeing another guy even before
we broke up. However, I accepted her again.
2nd occasion, happens 6 mths later, this time she was close with
another guy and went out with him behind my back. However, I tried
to accept her back but she told me the feelings are really gone for
good.
Question 1: I cannot believe that if u (as in her) claim to love
someone so dearly, how can u hold someone's hand and become a
2-timer? Are her words too cheap to believe?
Question 2: I did all I can when we patched back the first time
round. Sincerity and hard work does not help to save the
relationship. I dunno what else I can do to save the
relationship?
Question 3: My love for her is genuinue and I can accept her flaws
and even accept the fact that she 2 time me. I dunno what she wants
from me? Even though she claims I can be the best boyfriend?
Question 4: How can I save this relationship cos I did hate her
after the 2nd occasion and pester her non-stop by calling her and
waiting for her to come home. End up we quarrelled and at some
time, it was pretty ugly. I regretted my actions and now she does
not even want to talk to me. What can I do? I cannot be blamed for
what I did cos I am the victim...
Question 5: She grew from strength to strength and yet I am living
in a pathetic world of my own. I am lost, very lost. What can I
do?
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dude,
that girl left u for another man, so it's over! why bother to win
her back? if her heart's so easily won over by another party, it
means that ur relationship with her isn't solid enuff..
next, you are acting like a needy pathetic wuss in front of her,
calling her many times and waiting for her to come home just to
seek her approval again. for what? seriously, she'll think in her
mind what a wuss u are and will think worse of u! this is a big
mistake u've made.
nvm.. take this as a lesson learn and start to move on in
life.
all the best! 
