i am new here
lately i a bit sad cuz i juz turned 21.. and i still no bf.
prob is, ppl tink i look like i already had so many bfs but in the
end i actually have none!
not that i m pretty i m v. average but i tink i noe how 2 dress.
ppl hu noe me at 1st tink i have somebody or i dun care abt lookin
4 anybody. i dunno y i seem dat way.
n even my father now naggin me abt bein single 4 so long. i have
lots of frens n he's still tellin me 2 b more sociable. like scared
i cannot get married ah? v. irritating
all my frens gettin attached n neglectin me i also beg 2 feel v.
lonely.
my sister n brother (both younger) already have steads n i still
dun. my whole family is tokkin 2 me like i have sum big prob
liddat.
if they nv say anythin i wldn't realise all dis.
at 1st i juz take it dat they r naggin or teasin me den 1 day i
wake up n tink, yar hor y nobody eva interested in me?
nobody at all. i was frm mixed schl all e way even now.
i dress quite well, i noe abt fashion n stuff, i have guy frens
(but juz frens n we neva fall 4 each other wan)
i'm v. confused. everytim i meet up w ppl i neva c 4 a long long
time, they will think i have bf already. and i say no, and once
sum1 insisted i was lyin.
is there sth wrong w me? dat guys dun like?
i really dunno how..
rite now i haven even had a crush on anybody in months cos i juz
tink dat all guys won't eva like me somehow so no pt even givin
myself trouble.
nobody ask me out b4. n i tink sum guys quite scared of me. smtmes
they rather tok 2 others arnd me n not me.
how cum nobody interested in me.
i have liked ppl b4, i made it so obvious den they play along but
nv eva did anything more than flirt.
sigh. by e time im workin alreadi oso no experience den how.
i dun even need a bf i juz need at least sum dating experience
rite.
i haven done anythin 2 give myself bad rep or wat, i have been an
ok person, nv really tok bad abt ppl, always tellin jokes. i can
make frens easily w ppl but how cum nobody liked me b4?
nobody even wan 2 ask me out now?
i dun have any problems lah. i have 2 eyes a brain 1nose 1 mouth .
n i get along ok w everybody. i look v normal. i tok normal. i tink
normal.
advice?
n den sum guys when they noe me all they do is joke abt my looks my
height (i'm 1.55) n den i ask others they say i'm ok but new guy
frens i make oso do same thing 2 me like tell me "wah u not chio
enuff" or stuff. i noe jokin onli but after so long wif SO MANY
DIff guys i wonder if i really got problem.
i noe i dun have 2 let it bother me so much budden i really wanna
noe y nobody ever interested in me even when i'm straight n i do
drop big hints b4 only now i dun anymore cos i give up.
anything?
tks.
