gf blues... i guess =/

last SG · 2006-02-02T16:18:56+00:00

If she really loves u, she wont be doing things that hurts u... Simple as that... The way she treat u is hw much u mean to her.... If she is nt mature enuff...

StarPuppy SG

hmm...bbb jie...

from what i see his reply

his does have a slight truth...

some girls are evil enough to squeeze the guy dry

and force the guy to break up and putting the blame on the guy

~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy

browniebaobao SG

me chat with the girl?

if he can't handle her, do u think I can?

one has to learn.

people will mature and change over time.

i still duno how old are the two of them. girls throw tantrums is quite common, but if she is 20+, then really jialat liao.

I agree with u, she has to show him a little bit of respect and not too demanding.

browniebaobao SG

A slap on the face is an insult.

I din want to do that to my ex tho he asked me to, coz he really let me down.

Try not to use violence under all circumstances.

zeny SG

you want to know wahts the big joke?

Is the girls I have seen begging my friends not me..
My girls in the past never beg me,I never allow that. let me put it straight for the record.

I too told them what you have said begging my friend will not help anything but did they listern no they just beg and beg.

The girl love the guy thats why she begged if not do you really think they care?

In the xloongx case the gf treat him like dirt. Honestly do you really think the girl like him?

StarPuppy SG

sometimes when a person love...they love the wrong way

upbringing could be a result...certain family tell their children that they excerise their authority because they care and love but they just dunno how to show...

but frankly speaking..it does show that she does treat him like dirt and it seems TO ME that she is just toying him around

zeny SG

when she really slaps you in front of your friends. you will not have time to think that much. you will lose every single respect of your friends.

dokono SG

I see a trend in AA also. Most of the time it's almost always like the guys gets rejected or dumped or hurt or confused. Now dun get me wrong, Im not trying to say it's the females' fault. No one's at fault. It differs from r/s to r/s. Every case is different.

There is a general trend that the guys complaining they are so nice to their gals yet it seems the gal does not appreciate it. And they are often confused by their gf's mixed signals. Can it be that being 'nice' backfires?

It's not that ending a r/s is a nice thing to do. But both parties have to have something common--they like each other mutually a lot. If one party doesnt, what's the point of continuing the r/s? It's hurting to the other party and a waste of time.

dokono SG

if the gal begs the guy. There can be 2 reasons.
1) the gal like the guy too much
2) she has low self-esteem.

The first reason seems most likely the case.

xloongx SG

Hmm.. bleh.. So more or less… a talk… then if things doesn’t work really out.. then break =/ ... Hmm.. okay…

yuko-ogura SG

dun get upset over the breakup though.

u still have us..ur AA buddies around. Wink

Xcert SG

Originally posted by unknown_member:
[b]WE expect you to call us back you see.. Hmm... but that doesn't happen does it? Rolling Eyes [/b]

it doesnt.At least for me.

AshedAnna SG

Im a girl…Can say she’s immature…if you keep showing that you allow yourself to take in such crap, it won’t end. Look at me relationship. Same. One year plus and I did everything for him. Look what happened. Now everything is my fault, he must always get what he wants…blah blah blah. Same same la. Must be strong and be firm and tell her you won’t take it. If she keeps threatening to stop the r/s because of her stupid attitude, might as well let her. She probably just threatening u to scare u to submission. My two cents worth.

usck SG

how old are both of u?

smudgey SG

my only advice is to try to sit down with her and try and have a heart to heart talk with her....

Try and find out why she's acting this way. what's the real problem. often when there's a problem in the relationship, and it's not talked about or resolved, the gal will be just unhappy... so no matter what happens she will still see the bad in the situation and be pissed....

Talk to her.

drx SG

What did you give? honestly?

If you really like a girl, giving her your best and getting nothing in return is normal.

There must be a reason for her to react like this.

Could this be one?

1) she stick too close to you?

2) cling to close to you and always want to be around you until you cannot breath.

3) you do not talk to her often until she got to call you? And when she calls you you only talk to her around 10 mins only.

BadzMaro SG

How old is she ?

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