yo crystal,
you shopping alone before? like buyu cloth and shoes?
you try this pair and that pair and then you calculate your budget,
the style, your feeling and at the end with reasonable risk, you
buy the shoe you think you like.
Serveral weeks later, its either the shoes fits you well and it
stay with you, or the shoe bit your feet and you shelf it.
at least get to see the person, then decide what to do next.
come on, in singapore whwat can go wrong, just dress decent.
yeah, many will tell you it is not your fault that you dress a bit
sexy.
still dress decent if you have no intention to invite "sexy" action
from the guy.
good luck