Wah
dont think so negatively.
So many things in life require some experimenting.
All you need to do is to step out of your comfort zone and try a
new approach when what you are doing isnt working.
Two things you
must understand from your case
A lot of women prefer to talk to guys about some issues that are
intimate to them.
They are women, they understand their gender and know what will
happen when they tell their counterparts all these secrets.
Women are more prone to gossip and spreading rumors than men.
So dont raise your hopes too high when they confide in
you.
Just because they confide in you dont mean they must be interested
in you or they particularly like you.
Just be indifferent and listen attentively.
Women are the kings of conversation, but they are weaker in
action compared to men.
That is why they prefer to talk most of the time.
That is why they flirt and wait for guys to make the move.
That is why they hide inside the toilet to talk about men instead
of asking them for dates.
Action is their weak spot.
Which is why my advice for you is to simply listen and dont give
advices. You dont want to spend so much time analyzing things that
have got nothing to do with your relationship with her.
Unless you are Shakespear or someone who can make their
knees weak by just talking,
Focus on doing things with her instead of talking to
her.
Good luck!