darknessfall SG aiyo...as usual, see me first things, ask" where is your gf huh?" then i , says "break-up a while ago. Now trying to find a better one. " then they , says " its ok lah, still young, can afford" worse, some straight away ask " when r u getting married like your bro?"... waaaaaaaaaaaaa....i wonder how awakward they got when i told them i m back to single again....or prob they r immune to it already..haha...
FBI SG "got gf or not? Got then bring her leh" "where are u studying now" "wah u more good looking, got a lot of gf right"
subarugal SG i guess most common one will be the one: When are you getting married ? or When can i receive hong bao from you ? haa... but me lucky my relative quite ok, dnt probe too much.. heee...
sinicker SG let's keep it general ah. i also wanna share my input. let's change the title to "questions asked by relatives". i hari raya.. usual ah... in the malay community, this question always pop up. "u from which ITE?" i'm in a JC!!!! it's like a taboo for a malay not to go ITE. haizx..
darknessfall SG *pat pat* luckily u didn reply " i dun wan to end up like my cousins" anyway, whatever occassion, as long as you meet them, those few FAQ(Frequently asked Questions) sure pop up! haha.. me going mj sessions now! good luck to anyone gambling later, collecting ang pow or chilling out at home! seeu all online at night! cheers
sinicker SG seriously, malays suck at education/education system. once i wear my jc uniform(and this jc is just two stops away frm home) and enter lift, this malay pakcik ask me... "u poly ah?" !!!!
Ito_^ SG questioning no prob. but i hate to smile n smile n smile.. not only to relatives la. in general.
M©+square SG I understand, it's the mindset. My reservist mates are all NTC grads and their happy with where they are. And if any Malay who have higher education than the 'norm'. They'll make fun of those A level grads or U Grads. Hai. Culture and mindset.
sinicker SG yup. once i was looking for a job after my exams. just a normal job as a packer. chatted up with this group of guys... Them : u from which sch? Me : i just did my A lvls last week. Them : wah!!!!! u got future sia!!!!! culture and mindset, hard to change.
browniebaobao SG my cousin came over and wanted to give me ang pao. then she asked 'are u married?' she nv ask my elder sis leh.. y ask me? wahlew
ILPSY SG Last year, when they asked :" do you have a bf?" I answered: " I am a lesbian." This year, they din dare to ask! Hahaha...
newmanmback SG just asnswer blindly lah...such ppl are usually very backward thingking one although they dress like very fashionable
CoolMyth SG Questions I faced. "Married?" "Gf leh?" "No Gf, you gay?" "Got kids?" "When can eat your wedding dinner?" My god.....
