This is girl is not a typical girl you find on
others. In fact, she has developed a certain attitude and belief
towards Love and Relationship which you have to understand that
FIRST before you could put any logics into your plight.
If she has strings of ex before you, chances are, you are also part
of this statistic. Regardless, she is probably a Siren (AOS), so if
you are inexperienced in handling such characters... I don't
advocate you trying her out, especially if you are looking for
serious relationship without complication.
She has shown some blatant aversion to commitment. It doesn't
matter what actually happened; what matters is the ideology she is
equipped now. When we talked about the inability to commit but has
the ability to be intimate... this actually revealed an insidious
truth about her current self - you probably hold no chance and even
if you did, you merely fulfill a certain need that is visibly
lacking in her emotional structure.
She is a Predator; a woman indulged in mercy
sex. The roles are exchanged and you felt the
pressure of her being on the dominating side. It stultified your
masculine position and you wonder how should you react when she
come aggressive.
IMHO, you are spell-bounded by her well crafted seduction spell. I
don't know you personally... I also cannot say that you are in love
for sure and I believe that you won't know the answer as well. Your
coming tracks are perilous; you are not trained to handle them. You
can ignore me and press on, but I am quite sure you won't survive
this game ultimately (because my impression of you is a good
person. Don't ask me why... I just felt it this way... and a good
person will definitely perish in this scenario, with given time).
Cheers
