Eh need some advice from experienced people~ 1st date~

X k SG

Where to go for first date? :X
How should i present myself on that day??
How can i make her feel confident in me??
Should i buy her any presents or?? Embarassed

ditzy SG

Answered in the same order above:

Cineleisure catch movie, coz I notice almost everyone does that. Laughing

Business wear, no tie, no coat, and 3 stalks of fresh cut roses for the lady.

She's more occupied trying to make you feel confident in her already.

As above.

charlize SG

GV better.

Casual wear. No need flowers.

Never talk to a woman before ah?

Just pay for the dinner. Girls dig that.

Answer, same order as above. Laughing

FeowFeow SG

1st date movie, beach, coffee, etc

Presentation Just wear something neat, & suitable for the occasion & where you're going. Nothing more awkward than dressing outta place.

Confidence Huh? Confidence takes time to build.

Presents Something small & impersonal if you hafta. Otherwise, don't need. You wouldn't wanna scare her off on your 1st date. Just tell her you didn't get a present as you want her to be comfortable. Think she'll understand.

FeowFeow

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Tells us something about the girl lah. What if she is the active type? The people above me just say bring her go see movie. Write do everything about the girl lah, eg her hobbie. then we can give you a more accurate ans.

charlize SG

Oh yeah.

Choice of movie is also important.

No movies on the life of Marquis de Sade on the first date.

That's a nono. Laughing

X k SG

Eh actually i know her quite some yrs liao but few yrs bo see her
anyway she the friendly type and a libra too ^^ same as me~

fymk SG

Wear casually . We girls like to overdress

Go out for a movie or coffee - something casual and friendly

Just be yourself but that doesn't mean tell her all the negative things in your life.

Be humourous . A guy without a humour is a stick in the mud and deserved to be left there.

tut4nkh4m3n SG

yeh and just pay for the meal.

gerrykoh SG

Go to the movies, treat her to nice lunch (choose a quiet place) so can chit chat. If she is the sporty type, suggest going to East Coast- roller blade/ cycle. Then have a picnic/ ice-cream.

Be neat & presentable- Wear short sleeve/ polo shirt & long pants/ jeans.
Don't wear T-shirt, bermuda & flip flop.

No need to buy her presents just yet.
Remember to send her home if u can.
Don't forget to tell her u enjoyed being with her.

fudgester SG

In order:

1. Movie, makan, coffee. Tried and tested. Cliched, but works.

2. Just wear casually. You're already nervous enough as it is... wear some clothes you're comfortable in.

Of course, wearing an orange spandex bodysuit with swimming trunks while wearing SBO and helmet is asking for trouble. Laughing

3. Be confident, and she'll be confident. Even if you're not confident, just act confident. Chances are she won't know the difference.

4. Unless if it's Valentine's day/her birthday/any other special occasion.... no.

X k SG

eh thats also a prob sia i dont know how to be humourous :X

fymk SG

Boy , you have no chance with me then

But never mind - maybe still got chance with the girl .....just be urself Smile . If you know her for a few years - then no problem there . Just talk normally , discuss your life ( positive only) , and ask her about hers. Girls tend to let guys talk alot without jumping into the conversation then complain the guy is boring....so involve her in the conversation .

dokono SG

1. Pay for her meal, it's expected especially for the first date.

2. Dun talk too much abt urself and abt ur past r/s if u do have one before.

3. Try to make her laugh but dun be a joke in front of her. Dun try to joke becos u want to but respond according to the situation. It will make u humourous.

4. Dun praise her more than one sentence for the entire date. For eg. "You look great." That's all. If not, she will think u are tryin to get into her good books.

5. Pay attention to what she's saying.

6. Make ur topics short, light and positive only.

7. Dun buy presents. U dun owe her anything.

8. If u sense that she's not paying any attention to u or something's not right, quickly suggest to go home.

9. Relax. It's only a date. She doesnt owe u anything and so do u. U are both tryin to find out more from one another.

sinicker SG

good luck! Very Happy

CannyOng SG

Just wear casual but be smart(meaning no loose clothes and faded T-shirt),no present.Go for a buffet! Can eat and at the same time chit-chat.Talk abt the food,current affair,big news or find out abt each other hobbies…Ran out of topic,can keke go pick up more food while at the same time think of topics to say!Also observe abt their body language! First outing really counts! It really determine whether both of u can develop further.

dibilo SG

Haahahahhaaha... you know, my 1st date was there too hahaha

Devil1976 SG

1. Meal / coffee. Somewhere where both of you can chat. Or shopping (only if you enjoys it too). Some concert. Esplanade. Some art gallery. Some 'hot' event.

2. Just be yourself. And don't look like a mud in the face or a 'mountain tortise'... Have a bit of taste at least.. If you can, be 'in trend' but don't overdo it.

3. Chat and talk with her. Just be friendly and be yourself. Once you're not yourself, you'll feel weird. And ultimately she'll feel weird too.

4. No need unless it's a special occasion. If you need to, try to buy something 'small' but in fashion.

yuntian SG

i would suggest u bring her to somewhere tt u can chat and learn more about each other...rather than in a cinema, do nothing but stare screen....
for example, zoo....
can chat abt wat animal she likes....walk around...see children in the children playground...etc etc....

jst wear somthing casual...tt u like...

juz_A_gal SG

Wear casually - but not until you look very sloppy. Chances are she'll dress up properly, so try to match it without clouding her.
Don't buy gifts unless it's her bday or vday.
Everything else is really about being yourself.