Is waiting a fool's game? (for love)

last SG · 2005-12-31T05:53:15+00:00

Yeah, agree to those in red. For my case, I do know the chances are very low, for she only treats me as a good friend now. Every now and then I will have th...

FBI SG

haha don hope, go earn for it! DOn wait for money to drop frm heaven. Jus try wooing her for some time ( not a year of course!) if cannot then jus give up. At least u tried.

Dendrite88 SG

Yeah, thats so true, we only realise if something drastic happens and its too late. Thats a atypical human reaction I think, so thus, We can only blame ourselves haha.

LOL Alexkusu, you just made me laugh , Thanks so much. But that wont seem to be flirting right? I mean just plain flirt without ill intentions is ok, but I doubt I have the qualities to flirt. Oh primary target? I bet that will take another # years where # is yet to be determined =p

Dendrite88 SG

Yups, lol coincidences or what? The 1st girl i like, is now like my closest girl friend. Its always nice to acknowledge another person who have a similar experience, make me dont sound so weird. Smile

Haha, shall try that style, GO FOR IT. Nice enthusiasm Smile . I tried already, but she didnt exactly say no, or say yes. just a little in between, so now im trying hard. But i abstained from clicking her MSN contact or smsing for fear of no replies or "sweet,short" replies. The trying part is the tough one, I will persevere! Mr. Green

FBI SG

haha blamed ourselves being retarded. U might wanna use maths on that question. N = bblablabla Take N = to watever

FBI SG

Look man she didn't even reply u and that means u still have 50 percent. The rest of the 50 u gonna earn it yourself. Slowly man, i believe u have hope unless u got some rivals Twisted Evil

Dendrite88 SG

Retarded isnt something I would describe us. More to dimwitted or nitwit? Which sounds cooler or has a ring in it =p haha. But seriously, when I love da girl, I will wait... until I can wait no longer. Its really me. Cant help it now can I? Embarassed

Dendrite88 SG

We do talk in class or msn, sometimes but its quite rare, usually we are with and in a group of friends. So 1 to 1 wouldnt be that subtle isnt it hehehe But even then, I'm seriously doubting my ability to get a loved one.

Mhmm if earning those % were proportional to how much effort and time I put in, I think i deserved something in return. But its not Sad too bad . Haha.

Sure got rivals, its like all the girls i like at least got some decent guy or some sort must come along and disrupt. Or less decent, but i dont count those as rivals, more like buggers. Twisted Evil

FBI SG

ic, u have a better vocab. I think we have a common char and that is stubborness. I will do the same thing 2 . U will hate it when u have rivals coming.

Dendrite88 SG

Not really, just practice slightly more of english words. Just kidding Smile . Determined and stubborn at the same time, until we fall badly that is. When we fall we fall harder then normal, so its really double jeopardy. No girl and more devastated.

Rivals are something of a challenge, pesky and irritating, but once you beat them, fulfilling. OK i sound dorky, sorry. But i welcome competition cause, its healthy and at least you learn from your mistakes. And try not to repeat them in future Laughing

FBI SG

yes but u will hate them when yoir rivals use despicable moves. i believve there will cause i met alot of them

Dendrite88 SG

Care to share some experience? I dont really know any despicable moves, cause I hardly count flamming your competitors aka Backstabbing them as despicable. Its a good strategy, just gotta live with the guilt thereafter. Razz

Right, I just realise the girls I like always speak to another close friend. And furthermore is a guy. Argh, this really makes me sad and a tad jealous... I wanna know more about her but she confides in another person. But i Dont doubt my friend motives for listening, hes nice. But another normal reaction is... Jealousy Confused

FBI SG

nah don use the word jealousy. Should b envious. It’s good that u are envy. No nt flamming. Like this rival speaks ill of u infront of her making her believing that u are 1 big bad ass. Being nice to u suddenly but in fact jus trying to know wat’s your next move to woo her. Being a hyprocrite, hidding his real personality infront of her but actully he is a bad person. Try many ways to take her away frm u so that u don get a chance to meet or talk to her.

beavan SG

being friends is actually better than being girlfriend/boyfriend..that's what i feel,it lessens the awkwardness between 2 people..

but then when u get to the stage of wife/husband,of cos it's much better than being friends..

so my advice to u is to take it slow,jus be friends first..slowly interest them and if u can't,jus leave it be..

Yunhaier SG

When you wait for someone who doesn't Love you, you are a fool.

Anyway, you don't exactly wait for a girl in your case; it is a matter of a failed chase/s with many failing attempts. Idea

***

A final hug and time knew it.
Bus stop to senda send to home a permanent send.
Dreadful reluctance disperses while time ticks, with reality in haste in same regular ticks.
Seconds seemed to speed pass proportion minutes moved in unison
Bursting heart with wordsonly to be sealed with timely hesitation.
Long enough for time to escape the clutches of emotions.
In stasis of time there are voices voices from withinTimes not right.
Time liedand the innocent lie was believed trusted like a naïve child.
Deceptive time brushed pass and sever through the pounding heart.
There was a split there was scream there was innate pain felt after a delayed time frame.
Time locked agony swirling constantly like dagger to fleshmarking the thin walls of heart with lines of sadist pleasure.
Time had a promise failed to deliverprojected for time to mock at mans plain stupidity.
Diabolic time kept kicking keep ticking kept kicking kept ticking

- Chronicles of yunhaier.

Christmas... has gone... december has concluded... and wtf am I doing...

P.S: Please ignore. Idea

Cheers

Devil1976 SG

It has nothing to do with god.

Have you tried fishing before? Waiting doesn't necessarily guarantee you a fish by the end of the day.

If you have a choice, and you can be more proactive about it.. I say why not?

If you've already been rejected or you already see low / no chance, waiting is your personal choice... Nobody's really obligated to do anything for you... Really...

hxm SG

this means that they are not so comfortable speaking to you. haha if they are very comfortable speaking to you, it's time to move on to another target.

HolySniper SG

yeah, hypocrites/backstabbers are the ones i hate to the core.. c'mon they are using underhand methods to get u off the gal's back.. i encounted this type of ppl many times be4 already.. if u notice, most of them comes frm those bengs/gangsters.. white collar shir type hypocrites also have, but they are stil not that extreme YET that i encounted.. Rolling Eyes

Dendrite88 SG

Oh this type of people I have yet to meet though, so not really much affected yet. But what should I do if I encounter this type of people?

Yeah that is true, being friends is the 1st step huh?

Husband and wife is a little to far still =p Interest them mhmm, shall try to find the interest.. Thanks Smile

Dendrite88 SG

Ouch, the truth is just harsh , I guess your right. Sad I should move on shant I?
Nice chronicles you have, basically Sums up the feelings and thoughts one in my cas would have, Your own creative work? Very good.
Smile

Theres so much truth in what you say devil, I'm expecting you to be experienced. So whilst waiting what do you do?? Smile Tell me, I have indulge myself in games, going out with friends and more gaming (No drinking, underage Razz ) . But it still makes me sad despite having friends around.

No obligation is true. Seriously think your darn right Sad

Dendrite88 SG

Hmmm, another truth, harsh yet true. Lets say we are alone for a few minutes, sometimes got topic to speak of, but usually I try but. Dont work. Guess gogogo another target.

Share experience please, I have yet to encounter any of such jerks yet Smile Mr. Green

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