Dear Angel out there,
I have no idea what to think. Here's the situation and four
characters.
**(The Best Friend's GF)
1) My fiance has a best friend called "B". "B" has a girlfriend who
can't keep her mouth shut.
a.) She talks about my fiance's ex all the time because they all
went to Sydney together so its just "ex, ex, ex".
b.) She gets a little playful (which is in her nature) but at
times, it really crosses the limit.
c.)(e.g.) When my fiance changed his car, he had an old license
plate he wanted to give me. She took it home. (I know its just a
license plate, but it holds sentimental value to me.) Its like she
jumps at every chance..you know what I mean..
d.) Worse is, I have to be nice about things that she does
otherwise I'll make her cry. She cries damn easily and everyone
will feel sorry for her.
***(The Ex)
1)Let's call her "P".
a.) When I met up with her, she got explicit and told me everything
they did together. Even though I didn't ask. She just went on and
on and on. I sat there, took it in, then when I went home, I cried
my eyes out.
b.) My fiance, who was there when I cried, answered a phone call
from her, and spoke to her in the gentlest tone even I don't have
the privilege of hearing.
c.) Worse thing she said to me: "The amount of energy he spent into
getting me back within that week is probably the same amount of
energy he'll put into your relationship for the rest of your life.
Buay pai hor." Then the smile.
d.)Sent me a long email recently out of no reason. Told me off.
Didn't reply. Too tired to pursue it.
**(THE FIANCE)
1)Lets call him "Q"
a.) When I pour my heart out, he looks at me stupefied. He says
absolutely nothing, and continues surfing the net.
b.) In the end, he tells me everything I feel or say is ridiculous,
so dumb to the point where he has nothing left to say.
c.)Has a tremendous attitude problem and ego. Although its within
my tolerance.
**(ME)
1) I'm "A"
a.)After putting up with all these, I tell my fiance how I feel. As
long as he hugs me and tells me everything is going to be okay, I
could ask for nothing more.
b.) I've told him this many times. Although I think its gone in one
ear and gone out the other.
c.) I've almost had children with him. Because of the pregnancy, I
had to ditch my studies in Melbourne.
--->Okay, now I want to distance myself from him for abit. I
know this is some stupid J.C secondary school issue, but please
don't be mean guys, please don't scold me...I just need to know
what to do... 
