In the search for the One, we tend to skim through the 'rest'.
We would most likely already have an image of the One in our minds,
what attributes he/she should have, etc.
What if we finally meet the One someday, but we are just the 'rest'
in his/her eyes? We move on and look for another the One? So, there
actually isn't just one the One. In fact, anyone with the said
attributes can be classified under the One.
Ultimately, although it sounds really cliche, we really have to
follow our hearts. And, of course, the timing, location, and all
the physical factors that will determine whether you will meet the
One or not.
Say, if you are somehow not fated to meet the One, will you settle
for the 'rest' and console yourself that he/she is indeed the One?
