In love, one should know when to
give, how much to give and when to let go.
My problem is I gave too much, and the guy always dun
reciprocate.
My exs said these to me..
"I dun feel love."
"It is a mistake right from the beginning, we shouldn't be
together. And knowing that it's a mistake, we cannot continue to
make this mistake."
Then why did he woo me in the first place? Said im
so nice so nice, and put me high on a pedestral. Then when he
wanted to break up, he said whatever he could to hurt me, and
pushed me to hell, let me live or die on my own.
And one said this to my buddy..
"I duno why I love her that time, love this kinda person."
I really felt very chem sim when I learned about
this. It was during my father's wake that my buddy told me this. It
was terrible. I nv felt his love for me before. But I still stayed
by him. He was always ogling at girls, and harrassing my frens to
get their numbers. That's what annoyed me because my frens came to
complain to me which put me in a difficult spot. I already closed
both eyes when he get close to other girls or ogle at them when we
were together. what I asked for is for him to leave my frens alone.
Ain't I good to him? Why can't he spare a thought for my
feelings?
I feel utterly disappointed. I have never been unfaithful or done
anything wrong. In fact, they were the ones who let me down. I
tolerated with things that I could not, I forgive time and again.
And the way they put it, it makes me feel that I deserved that
kinda cold treatment and attitude from them.
Now I duno how to love again.
Originally posted by weijian:
+1
well said...
you are at least a expert, just not professional enough
only...share with us lor...will you - browniebaobao?
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hmm.. if im expert in love, i wun be depressed till now.
