Originally posted by FBI:
A [b]CHIJ Gal i knew a few weeks ago.
She was heartbroken and step into another relationship by
mistake.
As friend i told her wat to do.
She heeding me advice.
I can say i'm quite close to her, but no feelings involve.
But i'm afraid not..
It's quite obvious enough that she has a liking for me, but i stay
ignorance.
Her friends drop me hints
I'm older by her by 4 years
Helped her to carry her bag and stuff today, met my former school
mates at mall.
Can see that they are angry, perhaps jealous because i helped that
CHIJ gal carry bag.
Scolded me for being not a man 
because i carried her bag.
They are jealous and i duno why
Help them carry bag, don like, never help say not gentleman
Then at a shop, the CHIJ gal was talking loudly
saying my friends was talking bad abt her and stuff.
I denied it and said they are jus my friends.
It was so loud that all the peeps in the shop was looking at me as
if i am her bf 
It was such a total embarassment that i left the shop
immediately
Sometimes she jus tag my shirt or pull it when i stop to look at
things at mall.
NOw i think she treat me as her imginary bf.
Should i stop being nice to her or jus continue?
I don havve a feeling for her. [/b]
Yo bro ...
Yeah we know she is from CHIJ
Can you please label her as girl A the next time?
Is not good to label all CHIJ girls as bad gals and the school has
nothing to do how she is reacting outside.
Thanks man.
For your case,
1) you know this gal only for a few weeks
2) you say you are quite close to her and no feelings
involved
3) you hold her bag.
4) she complains and you left.
Humm,
ok to solve your problem. this are the steps I think may be able to
help you.
1) Declare in front of her you are only her friend no more no
less..
2) Do not carry her bag for her anymore.
3) Tell her in a face that you do not like to be tag at when you
are looking at something.
4) Tell her friends to stop hinting you. Declare in front of them
you and her are only friends. thats all and stop pestering you
about her.
5) you can only countinue on being with friends with her only if
she understands what you are saying and ask her to stop having
anymore funny ideas between you 2.
