rainee SG yea, I dun think I would want to ask my bf to carry my handbag for me...it makes me look like a helpless girl like that
smudgey SG ya and makes my bf look like a so henpecked!!! hehehe I do ask him to carry my handbags for me as a joke... teasing him... saying things like "not bad ma, quite man ma!!!" hehehe
Mao x 2 SG I can still remember I was so pissed off when my gf said that it's my duty as man to carry all the thing for my mum and sis when we went shopping together. I'm already carrying 2 big heavy bags of groceries lor.. then she still want me to carry the rest of the bags too.. sigh..
smudgey SG hahaha.... when it come to older folks, the duty is on all of us (younger ppl) to help out....
Mao x 2 SG Yeah... but not when I already have my hands full with stuffs ma. Usually I would help them to carry the heavier bags, but it's crazy that my GF made me carry ALL the bags. My mum and sis even volunteered to help me lighten my load coz they know it's really heavy for me to carry 4 or 5 plastic bags of groceries all by myself.
rainee SG haha I wudnt be so unreasonable...in fact when my guy frens volunteered to carry grocery bags for me, I will always say no...but when they insist on carrying all of them I will still take some and carry them myself
Mao x 2 SG Yeah... at least you are kind enough to help them to carry some too. But I did tried to carry bags for 4 girls b4... that really make me look like a slave sia..
rainee SG haha I never force them to carry for me, in fact I am used to carrying them by myself cos I go out shopping by myself sometimes...but I guess my guy frens very gentlemanly Hmm, actually not all of them...
Mao x 2 SG Yeah... That depends la.. for me.. ladies handbag is a NO.. ! Other than that, it's fine with me.. I don't mind helping girls to carry their shopping bags and stuffs. I guess you are quite independant ba. Some girls always expect their bf to do this and do that..
rainee SG I go shopping on my own cos i dun like to wait for my frens to go only then I go...sometimes it conflicts with my own schedule oso, esp since some of them cant even make up their mind when to go... Being independent is good
Mao x 2 SG Yeah... True. It will be very stressful for the guys if their gfs depend on them for everything, esp money. But still, a guy should pay for their gf.
rainee SG Depends la. I will feel guilty if I make my bf pays for me everytime. usually if I buy sth it will come out from my own pocket money I got from work. And if go out to dinner, maybe go dutch or take turns on treating
Mao x 2 SG So, I guess you and your Ai Ai must be doing rather well. Sigh... for me.. kinda doubtful that my relationship will last.
Eclipzer SG but then quite a no. of gers in my school like to ask their bf to carry their bags kinda sweet to them lols
rainee SG They just like the feeling that they have the power to get the guys to do what they want him to do
