xinyi!, i m afraid u are doomed to lead a single life u carry on
with the expectations. U are looking for the perfect gentleman. Let
me tell ya, there is no such thing. The jerks and brats are the
real gentleman because they know how to survive in the environment
. If lead in the right way, they will progress.
A nerd can survive too, but think again, a nerd is a nerd. At least
he has money he can still find a wife. beautiful too....Both types
can find women no problem. As long the uglier ones have cash. But
for women, only beauty matters most for these men to choose
them...not money or cash...
Likewise, a gentleman will look for a lady. This probably where the
bad news comes in. There are lots of beautiful ladies around for
him to choose but there is only a few gentlemen (according to your
own version) to choose from for u. The competition is going
to be intense. The most good looking suave, macho guys will also be
looking for the most attractive, sexy, feminine women. Do u have
what it takes to even compete? The well off guys can choose and
dream of a beautiful damsel. Can u?