Sometihing went really wrong between my gf and I and i dont
really know why. It happened this week as she went overseas with
her best friend. We promised each other that we'd message one
another daily, just one msg a day. I sent heartwarming ones to her
till thurs night when she return. However, her reply was rather
curt to me. I know something went wrong, most probably family
problems again. We used to talk to each other daily...without fail.
so i left her alone and hopfully she will contact me the next
morning. sdaly, she didnt.
We have been together for nearing two mths. And there's one
occasion when she met up with some family arguement, she confided
in me and i cheered her up and really did make her feel much
better. However, this time round, she didnt tell me anything. I've
sent messages to her asking what's happening and non of them had
been replied. She didnt pick up my call and i havent talk to her
for 3 days since her came back from overseas. I'm so worried what
have gone wrong between us. I didnt do anything to upset her, all
she told me is to let her be alone for a while.
Maybe I'm just selfish and longing for her after so long. But how
long must she take? I'm clueless on what's happening around and
what can a bf like me do at this point in time. I'm feeling very
low and I have lots of random wild negative thoughts about possible
happenings which often pain my heart. I was sent into the hospital
early this week due to severe abdominal cramps as I worried too
much. She knows about it and not a single bit of concern was
shown(no reply, no call). Perhaps she's really down with her family
problems. But then, why couldnt she share her burden with me.
Doesnt she knows that there's always me out there, who's willing to
provide a listening year and offer her with advices?
My numerous calls of around 4 to 5 and messages came unanswered and
unreplied, I might think that im irritating her. Deep down, i feel
so miserable. I went out as what my friend had told me but things
just went back to same. Feeling so low and sad. I feel that our
love isnt as strong as what it was during courtship and inital days
together.
I would appreciate any advice from you guys..what should I do now?
Stop whining, move on and treat nothing has happen and wait till
she calls me? I dont know how much longer i can hold on till i go
bonkers..
