izzit better to love or be loved??

last SG · 2006-01-08T03:36:57+00:00

Is this meant to be a new topic or just a statement in here

yuntian SG

okie..first time using this forum...dun realli noe how it works and pls dun remove this post even if its repeated...~ mi first post Smile

18 male this year....haven got a girlfriend yet...
why? u asked...

haiz...its all on mi persistence, i dun realli fall for girls tt fall 4 mi....u get wat i meant....through out mi 'long life' rejected abt 4 to 5 girls bah..
...but the few times tt i expressed mi love 4 a girl( after a short courtship), they jst rejected mi...real sad sia...

..one sec sch girl i like 4 very long, but she reject mi 4 dunno how many times throughout mi sec sch life...but we are still friends la....

recently got rejected again...haiz...became to rethink abt myself...

hence, the qns, izzit better to be loved,( i meant to accept a girl tt dun have feeling 4, but hope tt it would blossom)
or continue, to get those tt i love....( which i tink i would get rejected bah)

welcome any words of encouragements, comments, or saying tt im dumb(maybe im?), suggestions,
tanks....
haiz...real sad....

Ito_^ SG

its only better if you can do both. it takes two to clap.

MobyDog SG

Of course be love … la

ShrodingersCat SG

be loved means u are constantly hurting that person if u can't love back

love without reciprocation means u are on receiving end of hurt

it's a cruel thing. Like is better. Lukewarm all around.

birdtalk SG

better dont go love ppl.. =x no la.. just tt.. aiya.. you love them so much.. yet they treat it like nth.. some even think u r a pest.. hais.. aiya.. i rather go love those ppl who love me*

*terms and conditions apply

The Emperor SG

of coz it's better to love AND to be loved lah.

moreover, you're still young man... although 18 is a legal age, but that doesn't means u have lived ur life to the fullest. there're still plenty to explore.

take ur time. do it step by step. Cool

yuntian SG

anyway, i wasnt rejected by the same girl...
it was another fm mi jc...haiz...

weijian SG

don't listen to him....

do what you think is right...

for in relationship ...there is no standard Right Nor Wrong Answers from the start...so don't be bothered over this...

as for gal confessing to u...give them a chance...and give urself a chance...

if you give other gals a chance...tell them straight in their face...that u have a gal in ur heart...but u will try to make things work out between u and the gal who confessed to u to work well in the bgr

browniebaobao SG

u muz love and be loved by the same person, then u will find happiness.

R3SsH|n SG

it is easier to be loved and harder to love...
but it is more enriching to love than to be loved...

get it?
Mr. Green

browniebaobao SG

i think it's easier to love ba. at least i can choose who to love and whether i want to love that person..

but i cannot decide or control who to love me..

M©+square SG

Wah you all very cheem.

Laughing

Cheers

babymac13 SG

Most people will choose Be love.

One of Ronald Cheung's classic song - Bei Ai Shi Xin Fu Ai Ren Si Tong Ku.

Well, yes and no. Definitely, be loved is more fortunate than loving someone.
But of cos, be loved by someone u have no feeling is may somehow be a torture to u, i believe u went through that before.

What u wish for, probably to appreciate being loved and hoping return the love to that special person.

Be persistent and dun give up easily.... true love will just come one day unexpectedly.

R3SsH|n SG

well yeah...but when the person you love don't love you...it becomes really much harder...however...it is much more interesting to love someone than to be loved...when u love...you will want all the best for the other party...you sacrifice unconditionally for that person...and when you look back...you will give the effort you put in a smile... Very Happy

to be loved is receiving...to love is giving...like they say:
"give and take makes the way"

its best to love and be loved...but this is tough in reality...

rainee SG

Find the right one who can cherish the love you give, and you shall be loved Wink

sinicker SG

one way can be better.

but the best is if it can go both ways..

Patrik SG

Stay single.
No troubles.

browniebaobao SG

oh yeah~

we stay in ~HH~ for life ba.

Swordyx SG

i just noe the feeling of loving someone, it is so troubling yet so happy, but when ppl love me and yet i dont love her i will feel like the conscience is bugging me, i choose to love someone, and i hope the girl would accept me after some time….....................

falling_stars SG

a one sided thing can nv make both parties happy... one party will be hurt either way.... sometimes even both party are hurt for some reason....

love and r/s shld be two sided...