after reading your post, i have quite a few comments, after
reading quite a few problems, yours is the simplest yet
sophisficated to solve..with lots of parts to break
into..anyway...here goes nothing...
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lines) Congrats on the reunion of being closer with your
ex-stead.
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orange
1 - she knows she has done you wrong & is regretful
2 - she know's that the only person she can trust with her secrets
are you
3 - she feels comfortable with you
infurence - she treats you the person whom she trust only!!
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1 - you are aware of her current situation
2 - she has a bf, and you are considerate enough to think 4 her bf,
well done
3 - being together for 2 yrs, i believe she is the faithful type,
silent type, don't usually make the first move = as you have said,
she speaks to you of her problems.
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1 - sms during midnight (the time whereby its slping time
when she can't slp, she msg you in midnight = inference - your
position in her heart holds a bigger % compared to her female
frenz
2 - since your her ex-bf, she trust you naturally, and she knows
where to seek shelter when she need to go into hiding..
3 - when she sms you, she is thinking of you only...when a person
is bored/ cant slp...the first person that she contacted will hold
a great place in her heart
4 - private line personalized for you: she don't want to be
disturbed while chatting with you, for the line that you call to ;
maybe your the only person who has the no other then her family
members
5 - her boyfriend shares the usual contact no as the same way she
contact her friends and family members..
6 - looking at point 4 & 5; you know your are important then
her current boyfriend
7 - you feel sorry for his bf, maybe you would like to discuss this
topic with her together when you have a chance to meet up, don't
discuss over the phone nor sms nor msn...face to face= sincerity-
tell her how you feel, let her know, no point bottle up all your
feelings...in the long run you will have a very deep wound shld u
get on with another relationship
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1 - if she isn't aware of your situition, then tell her face to
face.
2 - help her analyse her current status with her bf, since you said
her bf only
knows how to play games, means that they have no other form
of
communication other then games...with little communication, it's
just a
matter of time before her bf break with her
3 - discuss with her on what feeling and damage she is currently
giving you.
during the discussion, then she will realise which person is more
impt
to her.
4 - place in her heart = definately a BIG YESH!!
5 - She needs you most of the time, just that she is thorn between
you and
him, she is just confused only, let her know who she really needs
via
discussion face to face
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1 - its good to be confident
2 - let her know that there are other gals waiting for you (if you
want her to
know the fact that she cannot always depend on you (shld u wanna
break
the possibility of re-getting her to be your stead)
3 - if there are gals whom likes you, give them a chance and give
yourself a
chance
4 - by giving other gals a chance, you are not two-timming, for ur
ex-stead
didnt ask you to be her stead, so don't worry
5 - if you give other gals a chance, do tell them, if not it will
be unfair to the
other gals at the start
6 - a chance to also let you decide if you want to continue trying
to give her a
chance to your stead when the chance comes.
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don't be so bothered by what they say...
love is something noble....if you feel you are doing the right
thing, then continue doing it, i will support you..
