it's obviously she's fcuk-up. if you seriously want her, make
use of the vulnerable position she is in - break-up their
relationship, then thrust yourself inside her life. a woman's
insecurity is the best weapon. she also invest quite a lot of trust
in you, so I reckon you are in a very good position to achieve what
you want.
It is very easy to trace her boyfriend, especially when he's in
BMT. All you need to know is his company (coy) and platoon. I am
sure you can syphon this information from her easily. You can
extract more personal information on him if you know NSF admin
clerks who are based on Pulau Tekong, eg. address, NRIC, blood
type, academic records, etc.
What better way is to start a rumour in his platoon about you and
his gf? If he's the jealous sort who is unable to accompany her
when she needs him, his jealousy will fuel his rage and his
inability to meet up with her will only compound his anger.. He can
destroy himself and his relationship. All he needs is a
catalyst.