This seemed like a very good place to get advice... So here
goes...
I just went to Poly and joined a CCA. There is this gal who insists
she fell in love with me after I met her once at the CCA, and has
been chasing me until now, which is like 2 semesters liao. she
insists on paying for my meals and movie tickets whenever I go out
with her, and because we don't have any common friends, I feel very
uncomfortable going out with her alone. I made it clear from the
start that I did not have any feelings for her, and she told me she
knows and just wants to be friends. But would friends pay all the
meals and movie tix and buy a birthday present over $100 for a guyl
who isn't even specially nice to them?
Then becuz I feel uncomfortable with going out with her alone, I
will ask her to join my frenz or ask her to bring her frenz along.
Then whenever I do that she will sulk or get angry (frustrated) and
say things like, "I want to spend time alone with you" or "I don't
have any friends. I only have you". But she told me she knew I
didn't want to be more than friends wat... Then how do you explain
her behavior?
I dunno I get these kind of cases a lot, when gals just think that
if they go out with me they have to pay for every single thing I
do. I mean maybe movie can la but plus every meal the gal so poor
thing la... More so if they work for the money. Then if a gal
wooing a guy doesn't pay for his stuff does that mean he will
reject you? I wouldn't, but I don't noe about other guy la. Just
very curious about this.
And I donno whether this is common, but whenever I like a gal, when
he likes me back, I realise I don't like her already. Why ah? I
think I quite alone in that trait cuz normally is the other way
around. (eg: U like someone then when you give up the person likes
you.) I am wondering whether it has to do with my inability to
commit or something. Maybe I don't like being tied down or
pressured. Does anyone have similiar cases?
What a way to start the new year man... I hope everyone will enjoy
their hols and new year and ang pows...
me so many problem neeed HELP AR !!!!!
