How to help ur gf ?

Sekundes SG

Sometimes, I don't know how to help my gal,
Like her stuffs she knows, badminton, piano, her designing.
While I'm more on oher stuff, programming gaming and other stuff..

Some how i feel we're seperated by our differences...
Whats the problem ?

M©+square SG

Does she need help?

Both your interest are quite different. Seperated by what, be more specific?

Was there any problem in the first place? Or are you anticipating of there's one? Neutral

Cheers

Saint` SG

accomdate to her ?? sports shld be easy to start from .. since u got her .. its up to both parties to try n maintain the rls .. badminton shld be easy .. try to start from there

twiggies SG

different interests ain’t a bad thing.. you can teach each other what you know..

Devil1976 SG

Pick up some common stuff...?

Or... Learn a thing or 2 from her if you're interested..? Wink

Ito_^ SG

designing n programming actually very related hor..

juz u cannot see wad common points u have doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

yuko-ogura SG

u shouldn’t be deterred by such insignificant differences.instead..come up wif ideas so that u two can learn from each other..

weijian SG

as long as the two of you are together, you both can always work out something together.. like what others have said..

sports definately is a easy place to start from, if you both can pick up a new sports together, not neccessary be the sports that either the both of you know..

if can be fun learning new sports together..

as for you feeling separated from her...i think it's just that with almost nothing in common between the 2 of you, maybe you would like to think back the time whereby you try to woo ur stead last time, the things that you chat with her and work on those things again...but Amplify It!!

Go pick up new skills together...and try to understand each other...it takes 2 hands to clap - agree??

one side working to prolong a relationship will not help much...it will only bring misery to the one who is trying...and disappoint to the other who doesn't know whats going on...

another thing that you have to take note** your posting's tittle - 'How to help ur gf?' It's not helping our gf, its us helping you by dropping some ideas or advice for you...as if your gf is our gf..watch your words okay??

i hope the things will work well with the both of you..

Sekundes SG

Yea there is, its like, when she's needs people to help her out in designing,
or somethings like or even some stuff like her sports or piano.
I don't seem to help at all...

I mean i feel useless doing so...
Its so frustrating sometimes...

Erm... Its hard cause i didn't get her, I felt that i didn't even woo her.
The problem now lies badminton, is hard, I play quite good for badminton, but i'm a little lower in standard cause her standard is at Team standard.

She tried teaching me piano, and me tried to teach her to play games.
But don't seem to have the time for it...
I mean she seems to be very busy...

I think its a wrong choice of words, sorry.
She's in multimedia, like audio sound and stuff like photoshop stuff.
I know only alittle about it.
I'm in Java & Asp.net not really good in both though...

Hmmm how ?

Sorry i thought was like asking for ideas like how you guys help your own gfs...
I wanna know how to woo her.
cause i didn't, so i'm quite clueless on how...
Its like when I ask her out, i always asked her where she wans to go, she always tells me anything.
I'll always stuck at this part, cause i'm running out of ideas...

Devil1976 SG

You've got to LEARN to ATTRACT her and HER ATTENTION!! Mr. Green "

mamamamama SG

If u can’t help her with her work.. the least you can do is to shower her with plenty of encouragement to show that you care.. Trust me.. she will really appreciate it if you do it right..

Sekundes SG

Hmmm any suggestion how ?

marzguy SG

Well, being yourself is one thing to help her. Trying to be something else may not do the trick. Show support & TLC, she need its even if you cannot help her physically. Mental support is the next best or the best option.

Ideas for designing don't come instantly, you may want to bring her around to get fresh air and fresh ideas may start poping up in her head.

All the best

chanff8 SG

I'll give you a suggestion. Using her designing skills and your programming skills, design a website/blog together Cool

FeowFeow SG

Sekundes,

In your title, you say she's your gf, but now she isn't?

I'm confused now.

FeowFeow

weijian SG

if your running out of ideas, try searching the web for some interesting ideas...or buy love related magazines then...

some pages inside got FAQs from ladies and gentlemen...maybe you can storm for ideas there...

when your on a date with your gal, try to refrain from letting her choose the place whereby she wanna go...you have to think...let it happen a few more times (letting her decide) she will lose complete interest in you...coz your too bored....try your best to think of ideas....

when dating...it don't always have to be the popular places....
it can be inside either or your home doing cooking...massaging each other...or in the park/beach walking side by side...chatting...go out near midnight some place high to count stars...trying out other sports that requires lots of time and patience...so you will get to spend more time with her...sports like fishing...crabbing...or if you can afford it, go spa..whole day package...or go on a holiday together if the both of you have money...

ideas...can nv run dry...places will remain the same for singapore is too small...with little places of interest...so if the both of youhave being frequentin those hotsports...its time for a change...go to places whereby other ppl wouldn't want to go...but of course...the place must have something interesting..if its a desolated place late night...maybe you can go to that place in the evening...buy glowing light tubes and form some words that you wanna tell her...then at night bring her there and show her...she will like it...

hope this helps you in generating more ideas which aren't that costly...

Sekundes SG

Ah sorry, i gave the wrong meaning...
I mean, She's my gf, but i never "wooed" her.
So the process... I'm not really sure...
Sigh...

browniebaobao SG

Originally posted by marzguy:
[b]Well, being yourself is one thing to help her. Trying to be something else may not do the trick. Show support & TLC, she need its even if you cannot help her physically. Mental support is the next best or the best option.

Ideas for designing don't come instantly, you may want to bring her around to get fresh air and fresh ideas may start poping up in her head.

All the best [/b]

for a moment, i tot.. when did i ever post a reply here? Laughing

KopiKia SG

Actually hor, its good that both of you are interested in different things. Opposite attracts and it really is true. Me and my wife are totally opposites when it comes to interest and hobbies, but we get along very well and don't step on each others toes. Best of all, we don't fight over the same things, reason being is that what we like are totally different.

You guys will make a good married couple, I am a living proof Wink

KopiKia SG

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