haiz...this is my 1st post and i also having some problem. Right
now, I juz being too confuse.
You see, this few weeks,I having some trouble in my r/s. My guy
like this gal, and i found out abt this. I was so angry with him
that he actually went to date this gal behind my back. Then I told
him, I wanna break with him. He cry and finally he let me go. I tot
I could let him go but I came to realise, I can't. So two days ltr,
I ask for a patch back. He told me he need time to think. So i told
him, I can give him time. So that week, I dun call him nor sms him
until on sat he sms me, asking whether did i go out anot. I told
him yes,I gg out ltr.
That night,finally he sms me cos normally he won't not sms me. I am
always the one who sms him call him 1st. I was so delighted that he
actually sms.
So next day, we went to church(every sun), he still talk to me.And
he still joke with his family.
Then in the late afternoon, when we went back to his hse. he
started to give me that "pissed off " face. I felt that something
is wrong but i did not ask.
Until I wanted to go home, he send me home.In his car, I ask him,
"are u not happy"He say no. I ask him whether did he have any
problem.
He did not reply me.
I sense something is wrong, but i do not question him
further.
Upon reaching my home, I ask him again.Iask him whether can he
share his problem. He say he is fine, nothing is wrong. He started
to get pissed off. Well, I tell him even if he doen't treat me like
his gf, at least treat me like a frenz. I scold him, I told him. I
really pissed off by his behaviour. He juz refuse to tell me what
happen. Den he told me that I can dun bother abt him. He keep
telling me how lousy he is. I told him, no, he not lousy at
all.
Why at the same time he giving me hope and at the same time,
shatter the hope???
Haiz... is he telling me to give up on him.Did i ask too much
ques?
anyone can tell me what going in a guy mind? Anyone encounter
this?
I really dunno what to do. Right now, I afraid that he might not
sms me again.
I really want to give this r/s a chance. But how????