How to woo this kind of girl?

last SG · 2005-12-06T22:21:04+00:00

Have confidence in yourself man, theres no point compiling a list of your flaws and expect the girl to fall in love with them immediately. Express the good p...

de_middle SG

Then must continue to say "I'm the dirtiest player in the game" wanna try my figure four leglock? Laughing

zeny SG

Lets go back to basic shall we?

1) Is this your first relationship?

2) Are you able to be her friend only if she rejects you?

3) Why do you like her ? her looks or character?

4) Do you have spare cash? Means can you pay for a outing with her? You cannot expect her to pay right?

5) If she is sick do you know how to take care of her?

6) If she is unhappy and refuse to speak to you. What should you do?

Mao x 2 SG

1- Try to find out what both of you have in common and start a topic from there.
2- Got reply SMS better than no reply at all. be patient, pal.
3- If you can't wait for her replies, why not call her and have a chat over the phone?
4- Sometimes, it's better not to be in the same school. Trust me. You will have more difficulties trying to get close to her if you are really a shy guy.
5- Be more thick-skinned.
6- Pick up tips from your friends on how to dress up.
7- It's not about looks. Some girls would prefer an ugly good guy than a handsome jerk. I don't know about your gal. You just gonna treat her well.
8- Be a gentleman. Pay for the ladies.. if you are broke, suggest to go dutch. Sometimes, you don't have to spend alot to woo a girl. etc, go to East Coast in the evening, get some sandwiches, snacks and drinks from 7-11. Find a good spot, sit down and have a chat with her. It's less than 10 bucks.

You just have to do the right thing at the right time.. Create opportunities for yourself instead of waiting for things to happen. Mr. Green
Good Luck, Pal!

Mariner SG

1.) erm..yes..actually i have no relationship before..i do not even dare to ask her out
2.) being a friend is perhaps possible as both of us does not really have the opportunity to communicate.
3.) actually i do not know the reason..i find her very gentle during my secondary sch
4.) yup..an outing once a week is no problem for me
5.) if she's sick and her parents knows about our relationship, perhaps visiting her and helping her run errands would be no problem as she stays quite near me
6.) if she is unhappy and is willing to tell me her problem, i would advice her. if she is not willing to tell me, i would probably stop bothering her Very Happy

Orgiie SG

!!! iits not fiiniished yet .... when you've done that .. then see the surpriised / [ maybe ] diisgusted look on her face, stiick our your eyeballs as much as you can then proclaiim loudly that your the real Nature Boy then Woo agaiin as loud as you can wiif your index fiinger poiinted at her and knees bent Razz

aha ... seriiously tho ... the most iimportant thiing you should do fiirst iis fiind out whether she has any feeliings for you and iis just shy or ... whether she dosen't.

iif she's iinterested iin yuu, then maybe you can start slow and get tuu know more about her fiirst eg. what she liikes, diisliikes etc.

you saiid that she's a good giirl .. hurm, iin Sg there's alot of types of giirls. eg. the wiild, hornii ones, bad - ass Twisted Evil ones, and good ones. sumtiimes there even miixes. iif she really iis a guud gal tho, den maybe she's just shy then.

rmbr, patiience and understandiing iis iimportant. just be patiient, take iit slow and see where iit goes

M©+square SG

Wu kong kanna boh kong. Rolling Eyes

Orgiie SG

Okayy .... maybe ii shud have contiinued my roll on the Rick Flaiir WOO ... Twisted Evil

one way too defiiniitely WOO a giirl Wink

zeny SG

hi Mariner
Thanks for taking the time to answer my questions.
The questions are design for me to understand you better in order to help you.

It seems more of a crush to me then a real liking. Why I say this? I will show you why step by step.

1) If you really like her, you will push yourself to talk to her on the phone and to ask her out. One word of advice if you like someone, ask her out ask a friend and chat more with the person. Understand the person well first before you make the choice of whether you like the person or not.

2) this one I will not push it becos you have not been in a relationship before take your time to discover that is not easy to be friends again after a breakup.

3) This is the real give away but why not ? Since all crush start from finding someone beautiful or nice.

4) If you think an outing a week is enough for starting a relationship then you are seriously wrong. In the begining of any relationship the starting part is the most important as it builds the foundation of your love for your gf.
At the starting usual couples meet everyday. The cost can be quite high in the starting so I hope you are prepare. One advice save money now to spend on your gf the next time. Start small, a dollar a day will help.

5) Nice touch, you know the basic of taking care of someone. Lets move to the next level and make it even tougher for you. If she is sick and her parents do not know about the 2 of you, what can you do?

6) humm good answer but a word of reminder some gals like make a big fuss to get your attention so be on the look out if your gf suddenly got a werid outbust.

rainee SG

the way you type is really annoying. Why must there be 2 i's in every single word that contains an i? Rolling Eyes

Orgiie SG

ouh ouh .. ii have a biig fetiish on bra straps ..

turns me on and puts me iin attentiion Embarassed

Andrew_teo86 SG

Hmm sounds like my case.. Well for me that gal want me to concentrarte on my gf ah Razz Must bring on the courage.... They dun like wimps.....

FBI SG

Well if u dunno that gal well then don go for it. Start by makeing friends with her for some time then discover her characters slowly. THat will b the answer to your question. When u 2 have become close friends then i think u don need us to tell u wat to do. 1 more thing, don spend 2 much monney on her. Don ever let her know u are rich. Pretend to b abit poor. Dress well also. First impression is important jus like u go for a interview.

Parka SG

Rick Flair....

Laughing

enemychaser SG

i dunno abt u lar, but i think bgr goes something like this :

friends good friends close friends b/g-friends

and about the cost thingy ar, it really depends on the girl lor... if she everything hi-class 1 or shops alot, prepare to go broke. on the other hand, if she is frugal and understand (highly unlikely Laughing ) then the relationship wun be very ex...

at 1st ask her out in a grp, like 3-4 ppl go watch movies or cycle or anything lar... go out a few times liao den start to be esp. nice to her in the grp, dun make it obvious tho. den u can start hinting her, if she doesn't get ur hints, either juz give up or wait a while more den confess or something liddat... it worked 4 me up until the last part Rolling Eyes

^mR.yellow^86 SG

haha..u sound so innocent, threadstarter. you only need to improve one thing. Be more thick-face. No money no honey. Got money then invest it on her. But be prepared, she might not accept you.

M©+square SG

Thick skinned you mean? Rolling Eyes

yuko-ogura SG

so in the end u still failed?

this is really then..Wu kong kanna boh kong. Rolling Eyes

yuko-ogura SG

sorry for double posting.

enemychaser SG

last part i rly have no idea how to ask the gal lar, maybe too rush in the end... but at least it worked at 1st, lol Rolling Eyes

edit : what's Wu kong kanna boh kong ar? cannot interpret leh, my mandarin is ban tong shui 1...

yuko-ogura SG

dat's dialect.. Mr. Green

wu kong kanna boh kong= got say equals nv say..

in other words..

it's fei hua.

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