How to differentiate true love from crush?

last SG · 2005-12-15T13:17:11+00:00

This three are essential to get the one you love. Grey issues.

The_Legend_Killer SG

In this modern era, love is a complicated issue. Many are too rush into a relationship, whenever they feel there's a feeling or chemistry, they will jump into one.

Crush or Lust can last over a longer time these days. Its the maturity in a relationship that determines whether it is true love.

Sadly, its hard to find true love these days. Look at the number of divorce cases.

drx SG

True love

1) True love comes from the heart and its shows by actions not words.

2) Everytime you do something for her and you ask for nothing in return.

3) You are wilingly to give up your life to protect the simple faith that you believe that she will be well and she is happy. Even to the extend that she marries someone else and had a very happy family with the guy.

4) Actually is the simple things in life like taking care of her when she is sick and loving her when she grows old.

5) True love is not hard to find but you must work hard for it.

Crush

1) you say you love her but you keep staring at the boobs off other gals and wish your crush has a boobs like other gals.

2) Wish that she will accept you as a gf asap and start treating you like a king.

3) hoping that she will remain the sweet gal always and she will never change.

4) Lust after her looks and always find ways and means to bed her.

5) Demand that she will go out with you when u call her .

Devil1976 SG

I think many people confuses 'true love' with 'eternal love'...

Devil1976 SG

NAY... I'm suppose to sound DEVILish YOU SILLY Exclamation Twisted Evil

dcx SG

True love???

Zhen Ai???

How to differentiate my "TRUE LOVE" and your "TRUE LOVE"???

True love is just a "click" distance away from a relationship...it's either you've that "click" or not...

Why wanna find true love?? Some ppl throughout their lives have been living happily with their families, but when u ask them if they've found their true love...some will say "NO" or not yet..or maybe "Yes", but she/he's gone or left him/her for other guys/girls....

1 second of true love is also true love....
Unless u're talking about Eternal Love.....

Well...what's love? Up to individual perception/feeling to define... Razz

shade343 SG

Stop Visiting foodcourt 6. Laughing

dunamis SG

Win liao... anyway, you highlighted the grey areas.

'love at first sight' = crush? If it's true, then it will also sound like 'crush at first sight'. Then is 'puppy love' = crush too? Maybe also similar to 'puppy crush'. Perhaps the word 'love' sounds better than 'crush' lar...

Why is there 'true love'? Are our previous lovers or crushees based on "false love" then? I also heard that love is categorized into 3 types: Agape (spiritual love), Philadelphia (brotherly love) and Eros(physical or sexual love).

Too many types of love... I don't know which is which...
I like it simple. Mum says to marry someone who I cannot live without, not i can live with. Ok, now I think that's love made simpler...

Cheers!

Homebody SG

I agree with the above.

Basic difference between 'Love' and 'Crush' is

Love - all intentions are for the good of the 'crusher'

Crush - all intentions are to satisfy the 'crushee''s own needs

Heartzzz SG

i also agreed with wat drx said.....Love should be unconditional....

But love is both ways de...which means both persons have feelings 4 each other....while crush is one sided n mostly is from outside de...which means u like the person's looks n is attracted by that....

Love takes a longer time after both persons knoe each other liao...but love is still veri the complicated n it has no definite ans....

laosu SG

Love = You can give up almost anything in life for the person.
Lust = You do anything to get that person..physically
crush = You think you wanna give up almost anything in life and do anything to get that person physcially but no action taken.

Twisted Evil Laughing

M©+square SG

This three are essential to get the one you love. Laughing

Grey issues.

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